Hi, my name is Sophia, and I am a human being.
I am real—with real and daily problems, emotions, and thoughts. Here in my blog, I don’t hide or sugarcoat things. You will see me laugh, you will see me excited, happy, and delighted, but you will also see me cry, bitch, grumble, and yes, use the occasional curse words.
I am a college student in Southern California, who somehow foolishly and naively thought she might try to break it into the journalism world. No, I will not ever strike it rich—but I know where my passion lies and I will pursue it. I’m passionate about God, about people, about making a difference, about writing, about food, about experiencing and learning everything I can— and somehow, this blog fits every category mentioned. In fact, I wouldn’t call this your normal food blog.
You see, it hasn’t been long since I’ve recovered back my ability to be so free, normal, and passionate about anything. I have been struggling with anorexia for more than four years, enduring two hospitalizations (both against my wishes), a horrid relapse, and many more rather tiresome and pathetic dramas, blah blah blah…
Well, I’m glad to say it’s over now. I am now no longer Sophia the Anorexic; my eating disorder (or ED as I refer it) no longer defines who I am now. Yes, my ED past is an integral and significant part of me. It has shaped me into who I am now, but it is my past. And I aim to live in the present, and hope for the future.
Who am I without my eating disorder? Well, I’m still finding out. And again, that’s where this blog comes along.
Some other facts about me:
I am Korean, but I moved to Singapore when I was four because my father, a missionary, ministers to the Chinese people. When I turned fourteen, we moved again to America to establish another Chinese church. I guess I would say I am “Korean by nationality and culture, but with Singaporean, Chinese, and American influences significant enough to seriously question that statement.” I speak, write, and read English, Korean, and Chinese: Korean at home with my family, English with friends, Chinese in church.
My favorite food is kabocha, cheese, oatmeal, sweet potatoes, runny eggs, broccoli, Brussels sprouts, and good, artisanal bread (Wonder Bread is certainly a wonder, but not a bread).
I love to cook and experiment with different ingredients, so be prepared for loads of creative recipes. If I had a bit more money, I would eat out more, but I do have occasional restaurant reviews. If you want to treat me lunch, email me. 
Why Burp and Slurp? Tell me, have you met any human being who never burps and slurps? Neither have I. Now, did I not say I am a human being?
pictures and colours? hee you are awesome!
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Hey, thanks for commenting on my blog.
I look forward to reading your future posts.
And best of luck with recovery, the blogging atmosphere sure is a great and supportive place to be!
-E
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Hi! Glad managed to fight your sickness…keep up the good job and keep on blogging…I for one shall be visiting you:)
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Excellent work and good for you! And a food blog is a wonderful way to express yourself and share what you are feeling and doing with others. Happy cooking and good eating!
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Hi – thanks for stopping by my blog!
I am so glad that you are working to overcome you ED. Me – I’m overweight, and been struggling with dieting for most of my life. I was recently diagnosed with a form of hypothyroidism, and placed on medication, so I hope that this will help.
One of my daughters-in-law, is from Korea – a small town just outside of Seoul. She now lives on Long Island. She is a fantastic cook. Her buhlgoki is absolutely wonderful. I’ve heard that in Korea, buhlgoki is like meatloaf, here in the States…everybody has a different recipe!
I’m looking forward to coming back here often!
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Hey, thank you for commenting on my blog! I am so new to blogging, so I am always so thrilled to get a new reader. I’ll be sure to add your blog to my reader!!
Also, I just wanted to commend you for your courageous journey to break up with ED! A good friend of mine is in recovery from anorexia, after a long dependent relationship with ED. She has a great website: http://www.cherylkerrigan.net in case you are interested.
KEEP IT UP!!!! You are doing great
-Christina Kim
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Thank you for commenting on my blog.
Your blog is lovely and this is a tribute to your journey. Congratulations for taking this step. Choose life…choose joy.
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I admire your strength! I wish you the best on your recovery!
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Hi and thanks so much for visiting my blog. I’ll be back for a longer visit but just wanted to introduce myself.
Blessings ~ Cathy
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Hi there…I’m glad you stopped by my blog! And I just wanted to say that it’s wonderful what you’re doing to help yourself on your way to recovery…I wish you all the best and I will now be one of your avid readers
Good luck with the moist chocolate espresso cupcakes for your friend!
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I love this blog…I’ve battled with an eating disorder for years, and am finally learning to live life healthily and happily. I hope that other women (and men) can realize that being healthy is much more important than just being thin. If you get a chance, feel free to stop by my blog…it’s brand new, so don’t expect too much yet! Thanks!
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Thank you for stopping by my blog! Congratulations on taking this courageous step. I shall be stopping by more often, happy eating and cooking!
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Hello Sophia
I’m glad you found my blog, because now I’ve found yours.
Nice to meet a trilingual foodie, when I get stuck with a Chinese menu…guess who I’m gonna call?
Seriously, well done with getting back from the back & beyond, otherwise we’d never have met. :0)
I’ll be popping in again….
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Wow! I was going to yell at you about those crepes until I read this. Now I just want to say GOOD for you to keep trying new things and working to overcome this powerful struggle.
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thanks so much for commenting on my blog! I’m glad I found yours – what a great tribute to your journey – i can’t wait to read more
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It’s nice to get to know you. Best wishes for continued good health.
LL
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Hey girl! Great blog and great story I cant wait to hear more… Have a great day
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Thanks for visiting FOODalogue. I hope some of the recipes inspired you. Good luck on your journey — and keep up the good work on your blog.
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Thanks for stopping by my blog! I enjoyed reading your story- I’ll stay tuned. Good luck with your continued recovery!
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Hello
good to find myself here. I am browsing your site.
Read your bio. I can identify.
Whatever roads we take to get into food, I’m glad we are here. Now it eat it all up!
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You’re a lovely strong woman and your blog is very inspiring. We’re right here behind you girl! You’re awesome! – Alisa@Foodista.com
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Hi
Wish the best of luck from another person suffering through the same thing!
I was wondering if you relapsed when you got out of your second hospitalization? and now you are trying to recover? did i get it straight?
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Yes, I relapsed after my second hospitalization, but not straight after. I gained about 35 lbs on my own, but then my college refused to take me in until I gave proof that I went to a treatment center. So I got all angry and depressed and discouraged and relapsed. Smart, eh?
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I am so proud of you! You have a great bunch of foodie friends to help you through it! To me it seems you are facing your fears head on. That’s brave.
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You are amazing! I am so glad that you are working your way through this. I can’t wait to check out your blog. Keep it up!
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omfg – i just realized you speak Chinese. REALLY? WOW!
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Hey Sophia… Heard that you are sick… We’ll keep you in prayer!! Keep in touch!!
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Oh, btw, had read your sharing on blog, great to see that you are feeling much better… take care!!
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I just started reading your blog and I really, really, love it.
I feel like I can relate to you so much because I am Asian also (not that that’s the only reason, haha), but I have also struggled with an ED.
You are so inspiring and FUNNY at the same time.
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Aw thanks for the comment on my blog! Yours is looking great! Very inspiring!!!
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Thanks for visiting and commenting on my blog. With an awesome name like Burp and Slurp, I had to check out your site.
I know what you mean about the whole ethnicity thing. Both my parents are Vietnamese. I was born in California and raised in Florida. Technically I’m American, but my face says otherwise.
Good luck on your food journey. I’ll be hanging around to read more about it.
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I came over from Maggie’s blog (and glad I did). I love your “about me”. You are an inspiration! Congratulations with your recovery and now you are helping others too! Beautiful.
I love your blog banner! So fresh & fruity!
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Many blessings on your journey. You have a beautiful blog. More importantly, I feel you have a beautiful inner spirit, full of light and love and hope and STRENGTH. I shall keep you in my prayers.
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Thanks for commenting on my blog
You definitely sound like you’ve been through a long journey, and I’m glad to read that you came out successful. I look forward to reading more 
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*Thud* these are awesome, I have “laughing cow” in the fridge, & avocado in the fruit bowl, & English muffins? well I must be able to find them right? it’s on my hit list for tonight! Thanks for sharing this Sophia ;0)
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Thanks for finding my blog, I get so excited when new readers find me!
Can’t wait to read more of yours!
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Thanks for your kind words….I am enjoying your blog!
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thank you for stumbling onto my blog
im glad to have another friend. i look forward to reading about your journey.
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I’ve now spent half an hour reading your posts and recipes! Yummy food, great pictures, and some inspiring writing. Thanks for checking out my blog as well, and I’m looking forward to checking out more of your posts.
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hey girl! thanks for the comment on my blog which led me to yours. can’t wait to start reading it
xoxo
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I lived in Korea for a year. Chinhea…. Loved the food and people. I can’t wait to come back to your blog and read more about you!
-A
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Hi there! Thanks for stopping by my blog
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I am so glad to hear that you are healing and that God is giving you strength!
I look forward to reading your posts!
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Hey there Sweetie,
Thanks for visiting my blog, Market to Mouth, and leaving such a generous comment. Love your blog and your brave message. I need to add you to my Blogroll !!! Also, you might want to take a look at summertomato.com I think you’ll like what she writes too.
Hugs
Louise
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Hi! Brand new reader and I wish you all the best of luck with recovery. I’ve only read a couple of posts so far, but it sounds like you are discovering some of the wonderful aspects of food – textures, colors, flavors. I look forward to reading more!
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Just discovered your blog – so glad to see another Asian sistah blogging about her eating disorder past. Not many of us out there!
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Hey- I just found out about your blog! I’m currently battling a vicious eating disorder- Anorexia binge/purge type and i’m trying my best to get out of it. I’ve been hospitalized several times (against my will) as i’ve been battling this for about 5 years now.
I’m Egyptian, but I live in America- but I am extremely interested in Asian cuisine and culture.
I would love any feedback you have for me or any recipes you’d like to share. I favourited your blog and will be following it from now on
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Thank you, Merna!
Do you have a blog? You didn’t leave your url. Or you can always email me!
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No I don’t have a blog, unfortunately.
Email sounds great, though!
I didn’t think you would even respond, honestly. ^-^;;;
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You should check out Beyond the Looking Glass: Daily Devotions for Overcoming Anorexia and Bulimia. I still refer to it whenever I’m having a bad day
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I loved reading your “about me” page and pray for complete healing for you – 100%!!! Thanks for being so open and honest – what a brave girl you are! Blessings!!!
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Thank you for stopping by my blog. I, too, have ED at the other end of the spectrum. I’ve struggled with my overeating all my life. Here I am at 70+ still trying to get a grip on it.
I truly hope you win and will be praying for you. ED for both of us is deadly. I read your blog on time and restlessness. You will see in my description of myself, the word restless occurs.
I am reading a book I’ve meant to read for a long time. The Purpose Driven Life. I’ve been a Christian for most of my adult life. I feel if I understand God’s purpose for me, even at age 70 my soul will be peaceful.
BTW without knowing anything else about you, as a unilingual (with tiny bit of Spanish), I admire you for being TRIlingual. What a window to the world this opens for you!!!
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Hey Sophia – thanks so much for visiting my little blog! You are a really talented writer, and I’ll look forward to visiting often! Oh, and your recipes sound fantastic
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Thanks for visiting my blog. I’ve added you to my reader, so I’ll be following you and your journey.
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