My dear friend and temporary roommate Chelsea said something the other night that stuck with me.
She said, “My purpose of writing is to delight.”
She being a creative writer and I being more of a journalistic writer, we obviously have very different writing styles. But what she said made me smile and be, well, delighted. It’s been so long since I’ve seen an attitude so simple-minded and pure about writing.
Many writers, I included, have many purposes and motivations for writing. I write to inform. To tell my story. To tell somebody else’s story. To educate and inspire and to debate and on and on and on. We have such lofty dreams, we writers. But sometimes, the best form of writing comes from the basic human instinct to delight other human beings.
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But even before delighting others, I’m learning from Chelsea that my writing needs to first delight me, the writer. After all, I’m forever my first reader. Many times I write with such a sense of “duty” that I lose delight in the very act of writing itself. Seeing Chelsea write when she’s in the car, write when she’s wandering around in the grocery store, write when the sun goes up and write when the sun goes down— just because she loves writing so much—has reinstituted in me why I became a writer in the first place. I love to write.
If there’s ever a person who personifies the definition of “delight,” it has to be Julia Child. I’ve never met her in person, so I only know the Meryl Streep version and the videos of Julia Child cooking, but is there any lady more delightful than Julia Child?
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On Sunday afternoon, the sun was so bright and scorching that all Chelsea and I wanted to do was lie on the couch fanning ourselves. We decided to watch Julie & Julia, because I discovered that she had never heard of Julia Child, nor has she watched the movie or read the book.
I was aghast. “You’ve never watched Julie & Julia?” I yelped. And then I proceeded to wax poetics about it, so much that it sounded just about, like, the best freaking movie ever made in history.
So we watched it, she for the first time, I for the fifth time. And just as I guessed, Chelsea loved it.
There is a dish prominently featured in Julie & Julia. Those who have watched it will know what I’m talking about. It’s bouef bourguignon. Ever since I first watched Julie & Julia, I’ve been wanting to make the dish. Unfortunately I don’t have a dutch oven, nor do I have the finances to justify buying it just for the sake of one meal.
But Susan (Mrs. Olasky, my host in Asheville) has a beautiful one. With the Olaskys’ anniversary coming up (today, in fact), I knew we had—absolutely got to—make bouef bourguignon.
No matter that it’s almost 100 degrees, nor that the dish requires the oven to be roasting for hours, nor that the dish is too rich and meaty for summer. Bouef bourguignon, bouef bourguignon, bouef bourguignon! These erotic sounding words just kept trilling in my mind, even though I’m not sure how to pronounce them properly.
So on Monday evening, Chelsea and I got to work. We were so enamored by Julia Child that we sorta dressed up like her, with bright colored blouses and scarlet lipstick.
Gotta love a woman who boils lobsters and stuffs duck in pearls and heels.
Bouef bourguignon is basically an eastern French stew with chunks of tough beef braised until tender in red wine.
Traditionally they use Burgundy, but we just used a cabernet. As Julia Child said, “Who’s to know?”
I made sure to use Julia Child’s original bouef bourguignon recipe, since the theme was Julia Child. But I had to alter the recipe just a little bit. Like…I couldn’t find a whole chunk of bacon, so I used thick-sliced bacon instead.
And instead of one carrot, I used three and instead of one onion, I used two.
Also at the end, I used twice more mushrooms, because we all love mushrooms. You can never have too many mushrooms (at the present I’m eating mushroom chicken while I write this, to emphasize my point).
Minor changes, just minor.
I don’t know why bouef bourguignon was rated “difficult” in many recipe rooms. It’s not at all difficult. It’s just a bit laborious, with several steps more than frying pork in stir-fry sauce.
The best part of making this bouef bourguignon was shutting the lid on the dutch oven and letting it cook and cook in the oven. The aroma of thyme and wine and beef emanating from the oven is just maddeningly wonderful.
At the end, you sauté pearl onions and mushrooms in butter and pour in beef broth and herbs, simmering them until they’re tender and saturated with buttery, beefy, herby flavor. Who are these Frenchies and why are they so awesome? How the heck did they think about doing all of these?
It looked like we weren’t going to dine until past 8 p.m., so Chelsea got to work preparing appetizers again.
She made some kind of baked creamed mushroom toast, a recipe that she’s cooked many times back home when she worked at a restaurant.
Here’s the finished masterpiece:
Isn’t that gorgeous? I can proudly say that I suggested to add the dried cherries into the dish for some unexpected twist.
Three hours later, the long anticipated dish was ready.
I’m sorry you can’t smell it, but I can tell you that is smelled like the utter joy of the cow who sacrificed its flesh for this wonderful meal.
Susan helped set the table again, this time lighting up candles to create a quaint atmosphere:
Better than an overpriced restaurant!
Okay, back to bouef! OMG. OMG! O.M.G.
The flavor was SO intense! It was not intense in a salty way or a bitter way, but intense in a way that it was so…concentrated in flavor. The alcohol was cooked off and boiled down until what was left was like…the blood of the wine, and the flesh of the beef, and all the juices of the vegetables.
This was surprisingly filling. Just a cup of it for each of us left us stuffed and happy.
We sopped all the broth up with Chelsea’s amazing “pizza” bread, which we reheated in the oven:
What a marvelous meal. What a delightful meal. And guess what? It’s even better the next day.
Here’s a silly little video for you of us trying to pronounce “bouef bourguignon.”
My voice don’t usually sound like that, by the way. I was trying to impersonate Julia Child’s distinctive voice and I went overboard as usual.
Ahh. If everyone could perform their daily activities with the pure delight demonstrated by people like Julia Child and Chelsea, the world would be such an unimaginably delightful place, don’t you think?
Question of the day: What is one thing/person that you find delightful?
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Love this post and your friend’s philosophy. Delight in your own writing because you are your own first reader – wow! Love it Sophia! Also, delighting in one’s daily activities is what occupational therapy is all about ;]
Thomas Keller, Anthony Bourdain, Toni Morrison, and mashed potatoes are all delightful to me. What a random mix, eh?
I love the video, too cute! I need to purchase a dutch oven so I can make this for Andy sometime!
I found this post to be delightful!!! I remember seeing Julie and Julia for the first time in the theatre, and the next day waking up early to buy the ingredients to make bouef bourguignon for dinner that evening. It was spectacular and I have made it several times since. Actually, it’s about time I make it again!
Gotta love a woman who brings pearls with her for her stay in Asheville;)
I’ve added the movie to my queue, so it’ll be coming around someday soon! I’m looking forward to it:)
Loved this!
Brave to take on making that meal. By the way, you both look great in that color of lipstick!
I didn’t realize it was possible to have never heard of Julia Child! Crazy. And yes, if I could use one word to describe her, I think delightful would be at the top of my list.
This is going to sound weird, but I totally would have thought Chelsea was a creative writer. She gives off that vibe.
Wow, that dish is definitely labor intensive! Even better that you didn’t burn it like in the movie! I could almost smell it looking at all the pictures. Oh yum!
I loved the video! I don’t think you sound silly, quite cute actually!
Lovely pics but it’s boeuf not bouef. Boeuf is pronounced like “buh-f” not the “boof” sound in Julie and Julia. Bouef would be pronounced as “boo-wef”
Sofia, another great story and I entirely enjoyed your writing. I feel my English will slowly improve by learning how you write, honestly (well here’s my hope). It was so hilarious how you say Bouef Bourguignon (and are you sure it’s your your reg voice?!?! LOL). I was laughing and my son peaked from behind why I was laughing (I must have looked weird). Great recipe. I need to check the recipe and make one myself! You have such cool friends around!
Did I write SoFia? I’m sounding like French.. Sorry Sophia. LOL!
Too many onions! But I love beef cooked in a dutch oven – just so you know, I have a knock off dutch oven I got at Sam’s Club for $35 – it’s super heavy and I’ve had it for four years going strong – you don’t have to shell out the big dough for one.
Hope you have a wonderful weekend!
Hugs, Biz
I love that you even dressed like Julia Child!
It’s amazing how much you can learn from other people. I really really appreciate exchanging with others about things I’m engaged in as well, and learn their perspectives on them and ways of doing them. Often I get inspiration from such conversations, and ideas I wouldn’t have had just on my own.
hehe what a fun post Sophia! Omgsh I’ve always wanted to try Julia’s boeuf bourguinon after seeing that movie. And thank you so much for the sweet encouraging text yesterday! it really made my day~~:D love you girl!
Dear Sophia,
You guys did a great job with this bouef bourguignon and I love the different ways you guys said it in the video. I recently came across a awesome beef bourguignon and mashed potato recipe cooked by Guillaume Brahimi, a leading French chef in Sydney and it has been out staple in this cold winter weather. Check out his recipe video below:
http://www.sbs.com.au/food/recipe/103/beef_bourguignon
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