Superstars

June 2, 2011

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Whoa, time is flying by! I can’t believe the second week of my internship is almost over.

Things are getting really busy at work, so to be honest, I didn’t really feel like blogging at all. After a 8-9 hour’s day of work, I just want to come home and watch a 30 Rock marathon.

But I feel like I have to blog today, because so many thoughts have been piling up in my head like the stacks of case histories I have piled on my desk, and I need an outlet.

One of the biggest responsibilities in my job is to publicize the L.A. Times Summer Camp Campaign. It’s kind of a unique feature thing to raise funds to send underprivileged and impoverished kids between ages 7-17 to summer camps.

That means I have to shift through pages and pages of case histories that different non-profit organizations send me and determine who will make a great story and who to interview for my twice-weekly stories.

These case histories are brief profile and histories of these kids that need funding for summer camps. And none of them are pretty.

For example, today, I interviewed a Salvadorian mother and her adorable, spunky 12-year-old daughter, Jennifer. The mother speaks little English, so we had a translator beside us. But even with the language barrier, I found the woman so charming and likeable. She is like 5 feet tall and always smiling, the kind of jolly woman you want to hug.

All I really knew about the Jennifer’s history is that her parents had a nasty divorce. I really didn’t mean to probe too much into this personal detail; I just asked the mother why she moved to America, and she started crying!

Holy shit. I was freaked out. I sat frozen, not really knowing what to do, so I just softened my voice a bit and tried to give the woman some respect by not mentioning the tears; I just went on with my questions. Thankfully, she stopped crying after a while and we got to finish our interview in smiles and warm hand shakes again.

I still don’t know the exact details of Jennifer and her mother’s story, but I know it has to be rough. And Jennifer’s case history was the milder version of the others.

Last week I interview another 10-year-old boy, who lives with his step-father. His mother is incarcerated because of drug problems. Just a year ago, he was sent to foster care with his two younger siblings because his step-father got arrested as well.

There’s another boy I will be interviewing next week, and his older brother got shot because he got involved in gangs. Another girl I’m about to interview soon lost her dad to cancer, lived in a bad community, and got sexually assaulted. She’s 14.

Remember my “Privileged” post on Homeboy Industries, a rehabilitation center for ex-gang members? These summer camp stories brought back that same heart-gripping sensation.

Goddangit, these are kids. They’re supposed to be drinking Kool-aid and playing hopscotch or killing aliens on videogames! They’re at least a decade younger than me, yet they’ve experienced things I hope I never experience in my lifetime.

I know they’re a lot younger than me, but I can’t help feeling respect and admiration for them, because none of these kids I have met have yet to utter a “woe is me, the world is sick!” kind of lamentations. Every time after I talk to them, they will thank me and thank the L.A. Times for the opportunity to go to summer camp and be real kids.

But I want to thank them. For humbling and teaching me life lessons no expensive, prestigious college degree can. These kids? They’re the real Superstars.
_CSC4221If you have been catching up on my sappy family vacation posts, you already know how spoiled I am. Things weren’t always the best between my parents and me and I have bullied and smacked my brother countless of times, but still, there was never a moment when I doubted our love for each other.
_DSC4417This picture is as sappy as it can get, my friends. And I think everyone deserves a real-life moment like this, whether it’s with your mama, your papa, your sister, your brother, your dog, or your high school sweetheart.

This will be the last post on this summer’s family vacation, and it shall end at the most iconic place in Los Angles:
_DSC4361HOLLYWOOD!!! And guess what?! I drove! In Los Angeles traffic! Into the congested streets of Hollywood!
_DSC4357Come on now. We have to end our time together with a big sparkly bang, and Hollywood is perfect for that.

I’m a city girl, so this is the kind of stuff I like. I love walking on firm pavement next to the bustle of traffic, be jostled by kooky characters and occasionally get the finger from a passer-by.
_DSC4367My parents like the calmer (and boring) pleasures like mountains, but you don’t come to Los Angeles for the mountains. Unless it’s the Griffith Park, home of the Hollywood sign. By the way, if you look closely at the above picture, you’ll spot the Hollywood sign. Let’s see how detailed your eyes are. ;-)

I have a confession. I’ve never really been here before, even though I’ve lived in Los Angeles for two years. The only time I was here, I was here with Eden to review “Hair” at the Pantages. It was a chilly night and I took the bus back, so I really wasn’t enjoying the atmosphere at all. 
_DSC4365 So I was just as touristy as my parents, stumbling about in wonder. By the way, here’s another case of “Where’s Waldo?” Do you spot a certain green ogre in the above picture?
_DSC4364How about this? Or this?
_DSC4363Charlie Chaplin comes to live! (The woman with the fantastic silver hair is not a character). Be careful though. If you want a picture with them, you need to tip. A couple of guys tried to walk away after a picture with Johnny Depp’s Captain Jack Sparrow, and arrr…Shiver me thimbers! Jack Sparrow was not happy!

Anyway, the whole sidewalk around this area was the Hollywood Walk of Fame, which is a 1.3 miles strip of public monuments bearing the names of famous actors, musicians, directors, producers, musical and theatrical groups, fictional characters.
_DSC4362I had to look it up, but each star is made of a coral-pink terrazzo five-point star rimmed with brass, with the name of the honoree and an emblem that symbolizes their field of contributions. Here’s what they mean:
Picture 1 I stole this from Wikipedia.

One day, my name is going up there. But I’ll have a special emblem representing: “All-Around Superstar!”

Anyway, this superstar had a bad case of stomachaches that day, so I gulped down some Pepto Bismol on the way:
_DSC4368Some superstar.

We also stopped by Grauman’s Chinese Theater, home to many significant movie premieres such as Star Wars. By the way, I never watched that film before. Is it really that good? 
475px-Grauman's_Chinese_Theatre,_by_Carol_Highsmith_fixed_&_straightened Anyway, the creater, Sid Grauman, this theater is home to a number of foot and hand prints of numerous celebrities. I took a picture of the Harry Potter one for my Potter-obsessed friend Jane:
_DSC4371Look at the baby hands and feet! All of the prints were dedicated to “Sid” and my dad spent a good amount of time trying to guess what “sid” means.
_DSC4372By the way, where are you supposed to park at Hollywood Boulevard? We parked at Hollywood and Highlands, a posh entertainment complex and shopping mall. 
_DSC4358We reimbursed our parking ticket by getting an iced mocha at Nestle Toll House Cafe. Nice. :-)

After that we went to Malibu.
_DSC4387But I already posted about that. Beautiful sunset, amazing view.
_DSC4460But the problem was, there doesn’t seem to be many good (and moderately priced) restaurants around Malibu. After cruising around for a bit and refusing to succumb to Subways for our final meal together, we settled on a pricey Italian restaurant.
_DSC4483We went to Tra Di Noi. Yelp on my iPhone gave it two dollar signs. LIAR! It was at least four dollar signs.
_DSC4484But we were hungry and cold, and no amount of money is enough to fix that.
_DSC4486We all asked for hot water, which they served in individual teapots (love that!). I really want to buy a tea pot now.

And then they served the BEST BREAD I’ve ever gotten at a restaurant:
_DSC4488Maybe I was hungry, but I felt like they were just manna from heaven. The focaccia was warm and incredibly flavorful, especially soaked in an herby olive oil dip, and the ciabatta was crusty and chewy. Perfetto!!! Delizioso! Squisito!!

The prices of the food made me gasp a bit, but by then I was sort of in a “Que sera” mood; I just wanted to indulge! Or at least, I thought I could. I still ordered the cheaper item on the menu, the Brushcetta di Tonno:
_DSC4491Grilled bread topped with tuna tartare, arugula, tomatoes, and drizzle of spicy olive oil.
_DSC4498Not a speck of crumb left after I was done with this. So fresh and vibrant, and the crusty oil-basted bread soaked up all the savory juices from the tuna.

My dad ordered the Pappardelle Mare e Monti:
_DSC4489Pappardelle pasta with clams, shrimp, scallops, spinach, porcini mushrooms, garlic and olive oil.

My dad finished this is 15 seconds. Thankfully, I reached over with my fork early enough for a decent bite.

My mother got the Fusilli del Funghi:
_DSC4492Assortment of mushrooms, leek, goat cheese, white truffle in white wine sauce.
_DSC4493It was SUPER fantastico. Sorry about the crappy pictures, it was pitch dark in that fancy restaurant.

My brother ordered the Fettuccine All’Astice:
_DSC4494Lobster tail, shrimp and scallops and shaved zucchini in a white wine and lobster sauce.
_DSC4495Sigh. So luxurious. My brother may order the most expensive dish all the time, but he’s generous with his food.
_DSC4496I got a succulent piece of lobster and a good slurpful of fresh, slippery noodles.

Ah, what a night. What a week! A superstar meal to end a superstar week for a superstar family.

It’s been two weeks since my family left, and suddenly my apartment just felt so big and empty. I think it was a good thing that my internship began right away, or I might have gotten sad and lonely.
family hollywood malibuWhat did I do to have such a lovely family? Nothing much. It makes me feel a bit guilty when I see broken families, but the noblest thing I can do is enjoy the blessings I have now, and appreciate my family’s love and presence.

Question of the Day: Have you ever been to Hollywood? If you could have your own Hollywood star…what emblem would you want? Whose name (besides yours) would you like to see on the Hollywood Walk of Fame?

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{ 43 comments… read them below or add one }

Eden June 2, 2011 at 10:55 pm

I get giddy when I’m mentioned in a post! its like seeing my name on a marquee!

Anyhow, IT WAS chilly that night, eh? You should go to the Magic Castle. Its not far from Hollywood Blvd. Its so cool. Its this castle filled with secret passages and they have top notch magic shows with cocktail and dinner. Its so much fun.

I used to act and my dream was to be an actress. But growing up in LA, actors and “stars”dont really impress me much. I want to have a star with a toilet in the center. Just cause no one else has it and people will be all “lalalala”, walking on the street and then whoa, “Eden Dranger??? why is there a toilet?”.

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Sara K June 3, 2011 at 12:51 am

I’ve been to Hollywood once before…pretttttty much a fantasyland!
Looks like amazing familia time- Italian isn’t usually my first choice of cuisine but those dishes look glorious- and focaccia…yummmm!

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Adam June 3, 2011 at 4:05 am

“I know they’re a lot younger than me, but I can’t help feeling respect and admiration for them, because none of these kids I have met have yet to utter a “woe is me, the world is sick!” kind of lamentations.”

Thank you for posting this. I needed to hear it this morning. I think we, as westerners, young people, and yes, even ED sufferers, have a tendancy to say those exact things. We should shut up and just be thankful for every gift from God, however.

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lindsay June 3, 2011 at 4:17 am

haha, I have been there. about 12 years agi in high school. EEK! I will never get sick of seeing pictures of your sweet family. They show such peace and contentment.

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Lee June 3, 2011 at 5:06 am

I’ve been to California twice but both times to San Diego. I’ve never been to LA at all.

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burpexcuzme June 3, 2011 at 9:56 am

Oh dear! You need to come to LA again. And hit me up! :-)

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Faith June 3, 2011 at 5:25 am

You are definitely a superstar in my book, Sophia — so much to love about this post! I’m glad you got to do some of the touristy stuff with your fam, it looks like so much fun! And you’re right, those kids are total superstars…I’m glad that the LA Times Summer Camp exists, and I hope it gives a multitude of these kids the opportunity to enjoy themselves like any other kid would in summer! Gosh, what a job you have…total superstar, girl!

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brandi June 3, 2011 at 5:40 am

Looks like your time with your family has been great – you’re getting to go everywhere!

I’ve never been to Hollywood, but I imagine my time there would be like the I Love Lucy episode when they’re there. Of course, I would like my entire life to be like an I Love Lucy episode :)

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Kate June 3, 2011 at 8:02 am

When things get busy my blogging takes a backseat, so I know what you mean!

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Clare @ Fitting It All IN June 3, 2011 at 8:45 am

Food looks incredible! Sounds like an amazing time spent with family.
And glad the internship is going well – even if it’s exhausting!

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Missy June 3, 2011 at 9:19 am

You are gonna wriute such amazing features on these kids, all the readers will be moved I am sure and this is all for a good cause. You are a rock star.

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Jess June 3, 2011 at 10:39 am

That meal looks divine!

Sorry you had some tummy troubles.. hooray for modern medicine :D

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emily (a nutritionist eats) June 3, 2011 at 10:55 am

As someone who works for a camp for kids (most of whom are under-priveleged) I can’t tell you how many times my heart breaks when I hear their “stories” – and like you, I always feel so lucky, so blessed but also sometimes like life isn’t fair. It isn’t fair that I was born into a good family. Why should it be that easy for me? Ahhh anyway – I hope you raise lots of mola and can send a lot of them to camp, it is SO good for them!

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Gillian Young June 3, 2011 at 11:03 am

I’m going to miss your family posts, they warm my heart so much!

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Vivian June 3, 2011 at 2:15 pm

OMGEE! Harry Potter ftw! :D Dangit now I feel like taking the first flight from Toronto to LA just to see that cement block!

Mmm… foccacia and ciabatta are the best! And hope the internship continues to be great! It sounds like a lot of fun!

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SinoSoul June 3, 2011 at 2:34 pm

Bwahahahahaha! Sorry Yelp lied. Malibu is a tough place to find a remotely affordable meal…

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Susan June 3, 2011 at 3:32 pm

I’ve not been to LA in a number of years now, so I’m not sure if it’s even still there, but the last time I was there my friend took me to Duke’s in Malibu, and I just remember never feeling so relaxed as when I was sitting there right by the ocean, having delicious food (I think I was there for lunch), sipping my cocktail, and enjoying a most breathtaking view.

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Hannah June 3, 2011 at 5:58 pm

That picture isn’t sappy, it’s beautiful! Just like the truffle pasta :D

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Errign June 3, 2011 at 6:03 pm

Nope, never been to Hollywood – only been to the border of California while in Oregon with family a long time ago :)

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teresa June 3, 2011 at 7:47 pm

oh sophia, you’re making me want to visit sooo bad! how fun! you have such a lovely family, it’s awesome that you recognize that too.

that bread…oh my gosh that bread…

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Veronica June 3, 2011 at 9:37 pm

awwwww, now I’m sad they’re gone even though they have been for a while now. It seems official now. :( Loved your last post about them, though! Your “last supper” together seemed totally worth the 4 dollar signs! :)

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Jolene (www.everydayfoodie.ca) June 3, 2011 at 11:42 pm

I would love a star … with a skull on it, because I am bad a** – LOL :-)

That bruschetta looks like perfection on a plate.

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Lorraine @ Not Quite Nigella June 4, 2011 at 12:15 am

I want to go to Hollywood and check out Malibu too! And thetas such a sweet pic if you two! And the lobster dish? Come to mama! :P

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Hester aka The Chef Doc June 4, 2011 at 12:36 am

I didn’t know that the Harry Potter crew had their own block of cement!!!!! OMG!!!! Yes, I am a Harry Potter nerd :-) Now, I kind of want to go there to look at it. However, you’ve already taken such a nice picture of it :-) See, I hate driving around Hollywood during the day. Ugh… yucky.

That Italian restaurant sounds so lovely! You guys sure do know how to eat because those dishes looked amazing! The white truffles… O… M… G! I’ll have to go there sometime to try it out.

As for my star, I think I’d have to have some kind of cooking emblem on it, don’t you think? I guess we could put a microphone on it, too, since I am a huge talker, hahaha.

Hope you have a great weekend, my dear! We do need to get together! I’m flying to Washington, D.C. next Friday night and coming back on Wednesday the 15th in the evening.

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Maris (In Good Taste) June 4, 2011 at 3:30 am

Gorgeous pictures of an amazing trip!

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Joanne June 4, 2011 at 4:24 am

Man, that must be so hard Sophia, to interview all of those people! I’m working in the hospital right now and whenever we have to tell families bad news, it really shakes me up. I imagine it must make you feel the same way!

I think you’re right in that the “best” thing we can get out of it, is to appreciate our own families. And eat good food with them. Obviously.

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adriana June 4, 2011 at 8:12 am

Reading those stories about those children make me feel so grateful for the family I have got. I am really fortunate person and I feel terrible that I complain sometimes without “real” reasons.

Thanks for your bloggin

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tasteofbeirut June 4, 2011 at 10:45 am

As the saying goes “count your blessings” and your family is a big one! Lovely pictures it reminded me of my years in LA and made me wish to go back and visit these landmarks. Nice restaurant too!

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Mimi June 4, 2011 at 10:53 am

Aw, you are making me SO nostalgic for my Houston Chronicle job! I’m so happy you’re getting to meet amazing people and get so many different perspectives. That was my favorite part. Out of curiosity, how much free swag is available? Hehe, that was my second favorite part at the Chron. My book collection jumped a score.

And your family has always touched me as being so adorable. I’m sad I didn’t get back in time to meet them :-)

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LeQuan June 4, 2011 at 1:26 pm

Lol-ed at “that woman with the fantastic silver hair is not a character.” I totally understand that you haven’t visited Hollywood until now. Edmonton’s not a big city, but having lived here for more than 20 years, there are still some pretty famous places here that I’ve yet to visit. Nothing remotely compared to Hollywood though. Um…dumb question, but does Superman have a star on there? I mean the character, not the actors who played him. It’s so nice to see you enjoying such precious family time together. Those pics are priceless! I hope you will pic a couple of your faves and frame them. That’s the problem with digital these days. You end up taking so many that you (well I) never end up developing them. I’d like to have a super mom emblem. Teehee. And if Superman’s not on there, then that’s who I’d like to see on there. Hope you’re having a fantastic weekend, dear.

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burpexcuzme June 4, 2011 at 8:29 pm

Hm, I should have looked for Superman!! I’m pretty sure he is there. But I’d rather you come and seek him out yourself! So that I can meet you, of course. ;-)

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Roz June 5, 2011 at 8:16 am

Great photos as ALWAYS! Looks like such a great time!!!!

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Carolyn Jung June 5, 2011 at 12:31 pm

My husband and I spend a long, lazy weekend in LA every year for an easy vacation. One year, we decided to hit all the famed tourist spots. It was fun to ogle the famous walk of stars and the cement footprints. Ya gotta do it at least once. Definitely worth it.

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Cheryl June 5, 2011 at 2:39 pm

You have a beautiful family and it looks like a great trip! Your mom looks so young and hip!

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MrsLavendula June 6, 2011 at 3:13 am

looks like you had a great time with your family! The food looks delicious! nice shots!

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Melissa June 6, 2011 at 8:04 am

The WA Post does a similar program with kids and a summer camp. Every time I read their stories in the paper, I cry. I was an inner city school teacher here for years, but, ultimately, switched professions because it was so damn heartbreaking. I just couldn’t NOT get attached to the kids.

Loved the pictures with your family. Adorable. So wonderful that you recognize how good you’ve got it, too.

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Juliana June 6, 2011 at 3:24 pm

Again, thank you so much for sharing these lovely pictures of your family…Hollywood? Many many times, every time that we have guest from out of Country…well, not so much now since we decided to send them to guided tours :-)
Have a great week Sophia!

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jessi p. June 6, 2011 at 5:24 pm

oh man i can’t believe you’ve never seen the star wars trilogy! i come from a family of science fiction geeks, and while star wars is more of a fantasy/hero saga than “real” science fiction (aka based in scientific fact), i love those movies. i have great memories of being a kid and watching at least one of those movies every friday evening over pizza with my mother, my real father, and my aunt and uncle after spending the day playing tennis together. to this day, i can probably say every single line of every single one of the three movies. don’t bother with the newer trilogy, though, because it sucks pretty majorly.

i know how you feel about the kids you are interviewing; my mother teaches in the extremely ghetto inner-city area and i often go in to help her out. when i say ghetto, i MEAN GHETTO: the house across the street was a “house of ill repute” that actually had a mattress on the front lawn, and before they upped security a man who was extremely high on something ran around through the school screaming and swearing! the school was the site of my only car accident (with the scary menacing pimp dude), as well as being home to several under-13 pregnancies, parents who come to parent-teacher meetings reeking of weed, elementary students selling drugs, kids whose friends and family members either belong to gangs, are in prison, or have died during drive-by shootings. my thought on this is that if you can reach just one or two or a few of these kids, teach them something worthwhile, inspire a desire to learn or better themselves, then you have done what you can. for instance, last week one of my mothers students literally tried to KILL another of her students by choking her to death (and went completely unpunished despite my mother reporting the incident) but we have made great inroads with others in her class, and often invite some of her favorites and their parents over to our house for lunch, a swim in our neighborhood pool, and conversation. we actually work with one of her kid’s mother, cleaning offices, every one of her kids has her cell phone number and they often call just to say hi, and we are both friends with many of them on facebook.

i remember one girl in particular, who was raped repeatedly by her father as an infant and young child, and was finally removed from her home to the home of one of the paras at the school– who then continued to abuse her. when she came to school for kindergarten, she was so sad, barely could talk, was dressed in dirty third-hand clothing, and was extremely malnourished, and my mother worked tirelessly to get her into another foster home. she succeeded last year, and the change in this girl has been amazing! she has filled out, looks and dresses beautifully, is always clean, and is making many friends. successes like that really make it worthwhile to work with these children, and my mother and her classroom is a constant inspiration to me.

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jessi p. June 6, 2011 at 5:25 pm

lol sorry for the Epic-Length Comment. ^______^

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Sophia June 6, 2011 at 7:32 pm

HAha, I love your epic comment! Epic in every sense. I’m chilled thinking about under-13 pregnancies and the girl who got raped as a small kid by her own father?!!!! Holy crap. I’m just so relieved she’s come to a better place.

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~Andy June 6, 2011 at 5:36 pm

Yay! I finally found Shrek in that one picture! It took me way too long. :(

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Panda June 7, 2011 at 11:59 am

I love the pic of your Dad with the ice cream cone, so cute! Your family looks very happy :) Nice photos

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Barbara June 13, 2011 at 10:12 am

You are definitely being used for a higher purpose Sophia! I believe you have found your calling. Fantastic post! After everything you have gone through, you would never have thought you would be at this point in your life 5 years ago! Your family is beautiful!
Barbara

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