When a group of people travel together, you’re bound to have to make some compromises. Most likely, you’re gonna want to travel with people who share the same interests as you, but when you’re stuck traveling with family…well, God bless them, but sometimes, you just can’t get along. Especially when you all have different ideas about what an ideal vacation is like.
My ideal vacation involves a lot of exploring. I love to walk around neighborhoods and towns, stopping by whichever store catches my fancy. I like to plan out a basic itinerary under a strict budget, and I try to use the most of my time and stomach—eating only the best (but relatively cheap) food, and sleeping less so I can enjoy more. Vacation for me is not about relaxation or rest—I want intense activity, something challenging. I also have no interest in nature. I mean, mountains and lakes are pretty and stuff, but after a few minutes, I get bored of all the same trees and flowers.
My parents’ ideal vacation, on the other hand, involves lots of trees and flowers and water. They can stare at a waterfall for hours, marveling at God’s amazing creation. They like to drive for hours and hours, singing along to praise songs, and stopping by at whatever hotel they can find when they get tired, preferably a Best Western. They detest the city—all that walking! All that people! All that cars!
So you see, we have very different tastes in traveling. But since we’re on this vacation together as a family, we’ve had to make some compromises. For Day 3 of our trip, we had our parents’ ideal vacation: we made an impromptu trip to the Thousand Islands.
We never planned to go to the Thousand Islands. Well, actually, my dad did suggest it, but my brother and I pooh-poohed the idea, shooting it down mercilessly. But maybe my dad prayed about it, because we somehow found ourselves in Kingston, Canada…and what do you know? It’s just a 20 minute drive away from the Thousand Islands!
“It’s God’s leading!” my dad proclaimed joyfully. “Why else would we have landed here? God wants us to go to the Thousand Islands!”
And when a pastor declares something like that, we’ve got no choice but to obey it as God’s words. So we went. My parents got their wish. And I gotta say, it wasn’t half-bad.
The Thousand Islands is, as you’ve guessed an archipelago of islands by the lake between the United States and Canada. But unlike its name, it actually consists of almost 1,800 islands. It is a very popular destination for boaters, fishers, and campers, and used to be a vacation spot for the wealthy.
We did a quick last-minute research, and discovered a good deal for a 5-hour cruise around the area, with a break by the Boldt Castle.
Our cruise boat’s name was called the Gananoque Boat Line, and we arrived just a few seconds before it took off.
The fresh, slightly salty lake air blowing into my face and hair, the gaggle of excited tourists chatting in French, the delighted expressions of my parents, and the melodious glide of the boat across the clear blue waters…they were all lovely. They made me happy…but only for the first half hour. The whole ride was an hour and a half each way, and by the last hour, it all got a bit tedious for me.
The view was excellent, but do I really want to look at never-ending blue-green waters and pretty islands for a whole hour and a half? At least my parents were happy:
They made up for the boredom by being subjects of my amateur photography skills. Hee.
An hour and a boring half later, we finally arrived at Boldt Castle. I really had no idea what or why it was an attraction; all we knew at that moment was that it was pretty, and my parents like pretty. And they were right—it was pretty. ![]()
The Boldt Castle was built by George C. Boldt, a millionaire (and popularizer of the famous Thousand Island dressing), for his wife Louise. He loved her so much that he bought a whole island in the Thousand Islands, and constructed a castle from scratch fit for an empress, all for the sake of impressing his wife. The castle was designed to be a six story, 120 room castle—complete with tunnels, a powerhouse, Italian gardens, a drawbridge, and a dove cote storing exotic fowls.
However, the grand story ended in tragedy. Louise never got to enjoy her castle, because she died at an early age of 45. The castle was only partially constructed at that time, and George Boldt didn’t have the heart to continue with it in his grief. In fact, he died never having seen the finished masterpiece of his romantic gift.
But in 1977, the Thousand Islands Bridge Authority decided to acquire the property, and to rehabilitate the construction to the wonderful dream house George envisioned for his wife…except, now it became a dream house for tourists of future generations.
So thank goodness, George Boldt’s efforts weren’t a total waste after all. After all, though his wife may not have been able to live in this castle, it is now open to everyone to enjoy…like my parents, who look like they’re on their second honeymoon here.
The funny thing is, Louisa…isn’t exactly a stunning beauty. When I saw her picture, I was a bit surprised, because I was expecting someone dead-drop gorgeous—a least, enough to capture the adoration of the wealthiest man in that age.
I caught the expressions of the other people who observed her portrait curiously, and all of them made a “What the heck?” expression when they saw a plump, plain-looking lady instead. I couldn’t help chuckling, but was also doubly impressed by this love story. Louisa may not have been a beauty, but that only proved that there was more than lust in this relationship. It only made George Boldt’s love seem more sincere and real.
After our short tour around the castle, we stopped for a quick lunch. There was a concession stand, and we got several items to share:
BBQ Pork bun with coleslaw (unpictured).
Hot dog with mustard, relish, onions, and ketchup.
Chili con carne.
Pizza rolls with Marinara sauce.
And ice cream cones for dessert! I think this was my favorite part of the day.
And then we trudged back to the coast line for another hour and a half…I had to stand up and walk to and fro to keep myself from falling asleep. I also entertained myself by taking candid pictures of my family again: ![]()
Tee hee! I thought my dad looked a decade younger with his cap worn backwards like that!
And that concluded our tour around the Thousand Islands. It wasn’t the end of our Day 3 in Canada, though. We had a long, long drive from Kingston to Quebec, where it was finally my turn to have my ideal vacation. I think you can guess how it’s gonna be like, but you’ll have to find out on the next post!
I’ll just leave you with a new foodie discovery I made:
It’s Poutine…from Burger King, of all places!
If you don’t know what poutine is, it’s a Canadian-style french fries—fries dressed in a rich and savory gravy, and topped with cheese curds.
I’ll let you know what I thought about it later. Right now, I’m in the car on our way back home. 5 hours of driving, 6 hours left to go. Whoopee.
Question of the Day: What is your ideal vacation?
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I love my family and spending time with them, but I’ve learned that having an enjoyable vacation is all about making compromises! Plus, sometimes I discover something I never would have otherwise done!
This summer, while studying abroad, I really just had to go and do as told. It was hard at times, but the whole experience was amazing!
No body there to hold the other cone for you? Love that shot : ).
Wow those islands look amazing! And I loved the story behing that castle, so tragically romantic. I never knew what poutine was until I went to a McDonald’s in Canada lol sort of weird when a fast food giant expands my palate
Love your descriptions! Definitely sounds like a fun (and funny) vacation
ah I share your dilemma with parents and holiday preferences. I’m easily bored and always want to be doing or seeing or exploring something…they like to just relax in beautiful surroundings. my ideal holiday would be in a city I’d never been to before, with loads of culture and sightseeing to do but with lots of shops and cute little streets to wander around, plus some nightlife too. I’m awful in that I can never see the point in going away unless you’re doing something NEW all the time
your day out does look beautiful though, especially that castle. and wow at the Thousand Island dressing link…that’s hilarious! I totally wanted your BBQ Pork bun…wish they made them in more places in England. have to say I scrolled fast through the poutine though…it’s one of those things I’ve never tried but can’t bring myself to, cause I really hate gravy.
x Fi
Loved looking through the photos of your trip.
My idea of my ideal vacation would be if i could go back to NY and stay somewhere wonderful and eat oodles upon oodles of fatty of food AND NOT GET FAT!!!!
*kisses* HH
hey gorgeous chica!!
hehe…super cute pic with the ice creams! I hope you had a wonderful vacay, and survived the drive!!
back to school soon? I hope your week is off to a great start!
xoxo!
You look SO cute with those ice creams!
I’m like you–I prefer to explore and try new things when I’m on vacation, but my parents prefer to just relax by the seashore.
My ideal vacation involves a lot of sight seeing, and trying new things.
I absolutely LOVE poutine!! Costco in Canada makes the best poutine. You can get it everywhere here!
I’ve never even heard of the Thousand Islands so of course now I really want to go there. You have a way with the camera. I have no photography skills. I think I should have you teach me haha.
The picture of you with the 2 ice cream cones is amazing. LOVE!
mmm poutine! I need to try it.
It looks like a fun trip.
I don’t think that the wives of the super-wealthy are usually drop-dead gorgeous (i.e. Melinda Gates). The super-wealthy don’t have to prove or show-off…everyone already knows how wealthy they are.
What a fun destination to visit! The Boldt Castle looks very neat!
Im like you, when on vacation I like to get up and go, go out see places, do things. My sister is the opposite she wants to subathe by the pool, my idea of a nightmare!
When I go away Im on the go all day
Your dad looks very trendy indeed with his hat
xox
Laura
What a sad love story!
I think I am more of a city girl when it comes to vacations. I love different places but I am kind of anal about having some sort of plan. I am not good at just going with the flow. Sometimes you miss out some good things if you haven’t done your research.
That castle is beautiful! What a sweet but sad story.
What a lovely place to visit. I’d be interested in visiting it. For mostly the history of it and architecture.
My ideal vacation would usually be to lounge around and relax. as well as exploring. I tend to have a curious mind about things so i tend to go off into places.
Awww, love the ice cream cones picture! And holy cow, yum to all the food pics! I love the scenery pics too!
I have never heard of the Thousand Islands and they’re in my neck of the woods!! So many places I have to explore surrounding my new city, I’m adding this one to my list
I’m a bit of both when it comes to vacations – I love to have days that are filled to the brim with exploring, sightseeing and of course, eating. But I need a day or two in there where I get to sit and do nothing. Guess I just always like a balance
Poutine!!! I hope you had the opportunity to try it elsewhere in Quebec. The Burger King gravy is waaaay too salty and jellied. I am very opinionated when it comes to poutine
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