I’ve had many blogger meet-ups before. But I’ve never once had a blogger meet-up with my family. Yesterday afternoon was a first for me, and it wasn’t as awkward as I thought it would be. In fact, it was quite marvelous.
You know I love my daddy and mommy. I may be 22 years old, but I’m still a baby and start missing my parents if I don’t hear from them for more than a day. But…there are times when my parents embarrass me. Ahem. Please don’t give me that disapproving eye. I’m sure that every son and daughter will attest to that. Sometimes, parents can just be so darn embarrassing.
When Aletheia of La Fille Naturalle found out that my family and I would be driving up to Toronto, her hometown, she immediately insisted that we meet up. She even made a trip back home from her university at Waterloo—right in the middle of her final exams—just to meet us!
Actually, even if she hadn’t asked first, I would have dragged her out by the hair, because I’ve always felt like we had some connection, and not just because she is friends with Valerie, a church friend of mine at USC.
Aletheia Zoe Chiang. Love. That. Girl. I love her because she’s real. I love her because she’s so brutally straightforward. I love her because she’s wildly impatient and emotional. I love her because she loves the Lord in a sincere, passionate way which I admire. I love her because…well, she reminds me of me, almost. We even walk at the same pace, and talk with the same exaggerated facial expressions.
Anyway. Aletheia met us for lunch in downtown Toronto with her two church friends, Katherine and Ellie. She chose a Moroccan restaurant called The Sultan’s Tent & Cafe Moroc:
It’s barely a tent, but it certainly did look like it belonged to a sultan! ![]()
Just check out the elaborate, grandiose decorations! ![]()
Unfortunately, the website or restaurant or someone gave us the wrong address, so we got lost and made the three of them wait for us for almost 2 hours. I felt so bad, but they were all really patient and nice about it. I’m guessing they spent that time to observe the interior design and menu, because when we arrived, they hardly seemed impressed anymore.
By they way, this is Katherine:
She’s a Hongkie, and she’s studying to be a nurse. She’s about a decade older than she looks. A demure, gentle soul.
This is Ellie:
Ellie is also a student here. She moved from Taiwan just 5 years ago, so her Mandarin was perfect. She seemed really intelligent, and she was incredibly warm and friendly.
I couldn’t wait to meet Aletheia and her friends. But I was definitely worried about my parents. I mean, they can’t even speak proper English. And my dad is a pastor…I was kind of worried that he might start preaching in the middle of our lunch. In his painfully, horribly, broken English. Oh dear.
But I worried for nothing. Because my parents and Aletheia hit it off right away. Aletheia and her friends are just the kind of people you warm up to immediately. The minute Aletheia saw my dad, she greeted him in her halting, accentuated Chinese—sending my mom into giggles. “She’s so adorable!” my mom gushed.
And my dad did end up preaching. But the conversation never got awkward or one-sided. Aletheia surprisingly understood my parents perfectly, so between Ellie’s and my few necessary translations, there were barely any language barriers. I attribute it to the fact that we all shared a common faith, thus speaking a common language. My dad got really excited to meet three young ladies who would listen to him so raptly:
Look at how enthusiastic he is! He even tried to use as much English as possible, and it wasn’t all that painful, because Aletheia made up for it by practicing her Chinese, too.
My brother was the only odd one out, but he entertained himself by diligently texting his girlfriend back home:
Cafe Moroc has a lunch special: a 3-course meal for just $15. What a deal! It’s better than restaurant week!
For my first course, I got the Maftoul:
Hand-rolled Moroccan “cigars”: hot crispy pastry stuffed with mildly spiced beef, cashews and raisins, and dressed in Chipotle Aioli.
Absolutely delicious—hot, crunchy, and stuffed with perfectly seasoned beef. I thought that spicy chipotle aioli drizzled on top was a great complement—creamy and zazzy, yet not overwhelming.
My mom and a few others got the Harira soup:
A hearty broth of chickpeas, lentils, and Moroccan spices.
I had a few sips, but chickpeas aren’t really my thing. My mom loved it, but I thought it was just okay.
Aletheia was the only one who didn’t get the 3-course deal, because she’s special like that. She got the hummus with pita chips for appetizer:
And the Cafe Salad for her entree, but she asked for extra olives and avocados, just like any good food blogger would.
Baby lettuces with fresh-cut vegetables, cherry tomatoes, and cremini balsamic mushrooms. Dressed in a champagne and pomegranate vinaigrette.
Meanwhile, I got the Mango Salmon for my entree:
Pan-seared 5-ounce salmon with mango salsa, served with saffron basmati rice and Moroccan-style roasted root vegetables.
I loved the salmon, especially the fresh, zesty mango salsa on top, but I was a bit disappointed that the root vegetables were just carrots and potatoes. I was hoping that they would be a bit more interesting, like sweet potatoes and beets.
The rice was okay, but a tad bit mushy and bland.
My dad ordered the Roast Chicken Pita:
Julienned roasted Chicken breast wrapped tightly with avocado, vine ripe tomatoes, Boston lettuce, red onions, olive and pine nut pesto.
And my mom ordered the Grilled Vegetable Pita:
A mixture of seasoned grilled vegetables, broiled with Swiss cheese, fig jam, cardamom yogurt, and wrapped with fresh Boston lettuce and vine ripe tomatoes.
Look at that! I almost wished I had ordered this. I can’t ever say no to fig jam and cardamom yogurt! I was surprised when my mom ordered this, because she usually goes for the meatier dishes.
My brother, predictably, ordered the Moroc Steak Baguette:
AAA Angus New York Sirloin, seasoned and grilled, blanketed with caramelized onions, and dressed with horseradish mayonnaise. I didn’t get to taste it, but he said it was good.
Dessert for me and my dad was Dried Fruits and Nuts:
Chocolate-dipped apricots and Walnut-stuffed Figs. I gave the apricots to Aletheia because she had no dessert, and I don’t really like dried apricots much. The figs were good—chewy, sweet, and crunchy inside—but nothing spectacular.
My mom and brother got the Brulee Royale:
Rich and creamy Creme brulee.
This was great! I was pleased to find it with a proper hard blow-torched crust, a thin layer of burnt sugar candy that you had to break through with a spoon. It was a first time for my mom though, and she thought she was given a dupe.
Ellie got the Moroccan Treats:
Traditional Moroccan cookies, with orange slices dusted with cinnamon and powdered sugar. I kind of thought that the orange was random, but hey, gotta throw a fruit in there for vitamins, I suppose.
By the time the lunch was over, we were one big happy family.
That’s what is so great about meeting people of a common faith—no matter what age, background, or experiences you might have, we are bonded by something more penetrating than blood. I guess that’s why in the church, we call each other brothers and sisters. We share the same blood—the blood of Jesus Christ.
After the 3-course lunch, we set out into Toronto.
We had only a couple of hours left before we all needed to head out to our own respective ways, but we put it to diligent use by just walking up the streets of Toronto. Apparently there is nothing much to do in Toronto, except to just absorb the city life (Hey Susan! I waved at you, wherever you are, as I walked by!).
You know what I love about Toronto? The multi-ethnicity. It was so freaking cool: one minute, we were surrounded by Indian shops and restaurants; the next, Ethiopian; then Korean; then Middle-Eastern; then Chinese…I was amazed by the variety of races gathered together in one small city, all living in harmony!
I also loved that they had a separate track for the cyclists:
Toronto is such a vibrant city, but with a certain orderliness to it all. People here are busy, motivated, and hard-working, but really open and friendly as well. And as my dad said, “I already know I like Toronto…because I really like three Torontonian ladies.”
Amen.
Thanks so much for meeting me and my family, Aletheia, Katherine, and Ellie! God bless you! We’ll meet again.
Question of the Day: Do you introduce your friends to your family? Ever get embarrassed by your parents?
P.S. I’m in Quebec right now! Just reached the hotel here…Cannot wait to explore the area tomorrow!
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Your brother is super handsome Sophia! And your mom looks just like you. Have a fun trip!
I LOVE HOW THIS WAS A FAMILY AFFAIR with three lovely ladies added in. I know 100% why you love Aletheia <3 i feel the same way, that girl is crazy special!!! Anyone that can "tell it like it is" and be so passionate about dreams, life, and people is worth having in your life!
Your Dad definitely was in his element- his wise words were well recieved
LOVED THIS POST SO MUCH! and everyone looks beautiful btw!
haha your brother definitely had much more fun texting his gf
xoxo <3
you and your family are so beautiful! you know, i used to be kind of weird about introducing my friends and family but now i love it. i figure they can all see the people who love and help encourage me…just all together!
How I wished I was in TO for that special meet-up. I adore Aletheia! I’ve never met her in person but already feel like I know her. That girl definitely has a way of bringing some sunshine into your life with her quirky, loveable ways and leaving distinct footprints that are hard to forget. I’m glad you and your family enjoyed TO! Hope you have a great time in Quebec. Oh, and I’m 33 and still miss my parents when I don’t talk to them for a day too. I hate it when they go on vacation without me, and it’s not because I’m missing out on all the fun, it’s cause I’m missing my parents. Yes, I’m a huge sap. I totally introduce all my friends to my family cause I truly think they rock! Even if my Dad loves to joke and most of the time his jokes are really bad.
what a beautiful family! and sophia, your brother is pretty darn cute!
Eek! Don’t say that out loud! My bro already has a freaking big swollen head!
What a great family you have there
I love when my friends meet my parents. My whole family are just a bunch of country comedians.
you know the most incredible people! and i try to avoid letting people meet my family until i know them really really well. i’m just very different from my family so i don’t want to be judged based on that.
I love my fam! I am never embarrassed by my parents – in fact, they are so fun! My friends always want to hang out with them.
Oh yes, there have been PLENTY of occasions when I have been embarrassed about my parents. I mean, who isn’t at times?! I guess it happened more when I was young, but as my mother gets older she is getting slightly crazier. I love them both though! I’m happy your blogger meet-up was a success, and that your parents fit right in.
The food looks outstanding. I love anything with extra olives, and beets! I love beets but rarely do I see them on a menu (I agree beets would have been better than carrots, although I do love cooked carrots). I need to go out more. Even that grilled veggie pita looks fabulous.
Oh meeting the blogger family! That’s intense! he he he But it looks like you had a great time!
I think parents can be embaressing, but in situations like that, it’s never too bad…
Yay, there’s someone else out there who’s training to be a nurse and is about a decade older than she looks! Welcome to my world
Love these pictures. I really want to visit Toronto. I’ve been to Vancouver and travelled through the rockies a bit though. I rarely introduce my friends to my family just because their paths often don’t cross.
Oh, and from your previous posts- love the snacks you packed to munch on during your travels. We pack crisps, dried fruit, corn thins and nuts. xxx
Dear Sophia,
Words cannot express how much I appreciated meeting your family this Tuesday — dad-preaching included!
When I got home, I kept gushing to my parents about your family and how awesome y’all were — your dad, the funny one; your mom, the sweet, gentle, and quiet one; your brother, the quiet and semi-awkward one. (Or maybe it’s because we made him awkward? Who knows) And you, of course — the wonderfully expressive, funny, warm, honest, and incredibly easy to talk to, SOPHIA LEE! Katherine and Ellie sent me an email yesterday, telling me how much they appreciated meeting a family that loved the Lord like yours.
We definitely WILL meet again. Praise Him that He has called us into one Body, His family, and that we share the same unique, eternal, awesome Life!
xoxo Aletheia
Hahaha! From your lips to God! I definitely hope we will meet up again! Thanks for gracing us with your presence, Aletheia! You and your two wonderful, beautiful friends. I almost got jealous you get to hang out with them often, because they are exactly the kind of people I love!
P.S. Don’t worry, my bro is ALWAYS awkward. Your description was spot on!
WOW! Looks like you’re having an awesome time over there. I was totally amazed by the grandeur of the Niagara Falls when I was there too. What a wondrous work of God! I used to get pretty embarrassed by my parents when I was a teenager. Now I seldom do, except when they blurt out something really awkward. But then again, when we are tempted to say that’s just how parents are, maybe it just points back to us, doesn’t it? =P
Looks like you you and the fam had a wonderful Toronto experience!! Too bad we didn’t cross paths, but I know we will someday
I’m told Toronto is the most culturally diverse city in the world. Not sure how much truth there is to that, but it makes for some pretty good eating
Hope you’re having a blast in Quebec! xo
Sultan’s Tent is one of my favourite restaurants in Toronto! Glad you made it there.
You were just down the street from the St. Lawrence market. Did you make it there? That’s one of my favourite places in the entire city. (I lived in Toronto for 2 years FYI)
Ack! I didn’t really know about St. Lawrence market…though I did hit up Kensington Market! Too bad…but looks like I’ve got to make another trip there!
OMG in Quebec!! If that’s the case, I may be two blocks away from you!!! :O
What a fun meet up! How wonderful that you took your parents! Everyone has always loved hanging out with my parents!
Love that you met up with Aletheia! She’s a terrific blogger and one cool chick. I also love the food pics — Moroccan is one of my favorite cuisines!
What a cool meet up. You know I love Moroccan food, especially after I went there 2 months ago. Looks like a great meal. I can’t believe you had the wrong address and I am glad they waited even if it was 2 hours. Looks like you are having some good family time too.
Common faith, common language – beautiful! How wonderful that you and your family connected so easily and deeply with these new friends! The restaurant and its food looks sumptuous and your photos of Toronto’s street scenes make me hope that I can visit and see for myself.
When I was younger, there were times when I was embarrassed by my folks, but as an adult, I now understand where they are coming from. Now it’s my turn to embarrass my niece and nephew!
omg I live in Toronto and I’ve been there! You should’ve went at night, where there are belly dancers doing 30 minute shows (plus it’s a 5 course meal!)and sometimes they choose you to participate in the belly dancing, lol
LMAO!!! I can just imagine my dad the pastor’s expression at a scantily-clad, belly-baring dancer shimmying her booty in front of his face!! AAH! HAhahahahah!!!
I will always be a bit cautious about introducing my family members to people, because they are so shy! I’m not sure if I’m so much embarrassed as much as I’m concerned about how my family feels. The food looks AMAZING! Love the results of your new camera.
how fun, i’m glad it went so well. i used to be embarrassed of my family, but now i couldn’t be more proud of them. i love introducing them to people.
Oh my goodness!
Yr really travelling! I wish I can join u man!
Well, these are the places tht i would probably never go, so its good to see it frm yr blog. all tht food u had looks mighty good
Lastly, i think ur parents r so cool
and your friends too, for showing respect to your parents.
That whole meal looks amazing!! My family is very embarassing, but I love them anyway!!
My friends usually just laugh along with me at them… they are definitely hilarious!!
That is so awesome that you had a blogger meet-up with your whole fam! It sounds like everyone had a pretty great time. The food looks incredible too, especially the Moroccan cigars…I’m going to have to try to recreate that one!
I am not often embarrassed by my parents, thank the Lord
But yes, I introduce friends to my family. But, most of my friends (actually, like all of them!) I’ve known for like all my life, or at least years!!
Three courses for 15 dollars? AWESOME. I love apricots!
<3 jess
xoxo
That food makes me hungry! I know you are “on the road” but zip by my site and enter my SPAM giveaway
how adorable is your family?! i would love to meet your folks!
Cutest meet up ever? I think yes
I love that you’re having blogger meet-ups on your tour through Canada! That’s the way I would do it. I would be nervous to have my parents meet bloggers as well so I totally feel your anxiety. It looks like it went super well though! And that food looks fantastic!
I would eat that chickpea broth for you!
My parents don’t know about the blog, so it might be sort of awkward to explain to them how I know some blogger friends.
Loved this! That’s so cool that your family got to meet up with food blogger friends and your common faith helped draw you all together. I think the older you get, the less embarrassed you are by your parents. I haven’t been embarrassed by mine in quite a while but as a teen, my Mom would put me down and cuss me out in front of my friends which was not only embarrassing but also hurt worse than if she’d done it alone. My Mom was always kind of mean to us when we were kids but strangely, now that we are all out of the house, she is always nice. She has suffered from mental illness since she was a teen so maybe some of that stemmed from her own problems, I don’t know.
What a wonderful and meaningful meetup.
Nice photo, nice place, nice food.. So envy.
Really love to see your whole family together.
Take more picture next time
What a fun get-together. Great food always breaks down any barrier. It’s the perfect way to get people talking and interested in one another.
What a great story, I was right there with you. Really nice pics you’ve done. Great job.
I’ve been embarrassed by my parents SO many times
love the pictures and the new camera, Sophia.
hope you’re doing well.
Christina!! So happy to hear from you. I hope you’re having a great summer…but I’ll bet you’re probably all over the place making it an ultra-productive summer!
My new camera is my baby…You don’t know how crazy jealous I was at you and your big-ass camera! Tee hee.
I’ll prob see you around in school soon!
I’ve never been fortunate enough to meet up with a blogger (and thats why I started blogging – to make like-minded friends)…Sounds like you have met some amazing people though
The restaurant looks amazing
p.s. Sorry if I sound whiny…don’t mean to…you’re just lucky
I live far away from my parents now, so I couldn’t introduce my friends, but in the past I used to get a little embarrassed. Its silly really. My parents are wonderful people.
I hope you have an amazing time in Quebec.
*kisses* HH
Your family is TOO ADORABLE!!! Haha my dad’s a professor, so he always like to talk to whoever would listen to him what he’s currently researching/teaching. I love that expression of Aletheia when your dad is excitedly explaining. You always have a knack at capturing people’s faces in their most natural states
Wonderful for your family to meet your friends! Your lunch sounds lovely, I especially would love to try the Maftoul. Have a wonderful time in Quebec! I have been to Toronto & Niagara Falls but haven’t made my way to Quebec yet, it’s on our list
Most of my friends know my family. Though, my family is only my mom.
I used to have my moments when I was younger, but now not so much. Plus, anyone who meets my mom instantly loves her. hahaha…
Hi Sophia! Your trip sounds great so far. Sorry you guys got lost, I know how frustrating that can be! All the food you guys ordered looked amazing. As soon as you said you hoped your dad didn’t embarrass you I immediately thought of my dad. When I was younger I was SUPER embarrassed about stuff he did. Every year he would come to school at the last day of school since Kindergarten and take pictures of friends/teachers. About 5th grade, my twin sister and I were super embarrassed by him calling the shots, telling people where to stand, grabbing teachers and getting him the picture and we told him not to come…when we got to school, all of our friends and teachers were like “where is your dad?” “Isn’t he coming?” Sometimes what we find embarrassing, other people don’t! From then on he came every day to the last day of school until we graduated high school. He passed away 12 years ago this October, so I would give anything for him to be here right now, so even if your dad does make you crazy sometimes, ENJOY every second!
Have a great weekend Sophia!
It looks like you are having pretty much the best summer ever. I want to see Quebec!
You have such a cute family. I love how much your dad is smiling in the black & white picture of you guys sitting down at lunch. So cute!
ooo everything looks soo pretty and good! i love the pro pics!
I’m so greedy when it comes to salmon. It takes 1/2 lb. to make me happy.
I just got back from Quebec. Try poutine – I have a feeling you’ll like it!
I don’t ever remember being embarrassed by my folks or family. They’re colorful – Irish Catholic and Southern Baptist, my father’s a Civil War re-enactor complete with period mustache, and they’re all very, very loud and opinionated – but I’ve always accepted these things. I kind of like having a visibly quirky family!
Good looking family
Glad to hear you had a good time in Toronto! (aka, best city in the universe ;D)
Next time you’re in town, check out “Fresh” or “Cafe Crepe”, both downtown. Baller restaurants.
And yes, we’re very diverse. Love it here <3
izzyy
xox
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