Oh What A Wonderful Trip!

July 3, 2010

in eating out,family,God,My story,travel

Hey guys! The last few days have been like a whirlwind, but right now, I’m back in Incheon, staying at the same hotel by myself. I leave in less than 2 days, back to the U.S.of A, and for the last couple of days, I finally have some quiet time to myself to do some light meditation.

Reflecting back to this summer trip, I am filled with overabounding joy and gratefulness. This trip has been such a blessing. It has blessed me, and made me aware of God’s intimate guiding each step of the way. I knew this trip would be great, but I did not fathom how much of a success it will be. I had several prayer requests in mind before I set out on this trip, and God has answered every single one of them. My God is freaking amazing.

I thank God for a meaningful trip with Jing Wen to Hong Kong, in which we strengthened our friendship despite some conflicts, and in turn blessed and encourage one another in myriad of ways.

I thank God for all the awesome time I’ve had with my old friends, and being able to laugh, cry, share testimonies, and praise the Lord together.

I thank God for letting me meet some really admirable and adorable new friends, and for letting me realize that wonderful friends can be found anywhere.

I thank God for an eye-opening church retreat to Malacca, in which I was connected in one heart and spirit with incredibly blessed and inspiring individuals from all over the world.

I thank God for reuniting me with my family in Korea, for letting me see my grandparents and give them some comfort for the last time. I also thank God for the kindness of my relatives, who fed and took care of me when my parents returned home. Their active love really touched me so, so much.

And I thank God for resolving a serious 8-year-long conflict between me and a certain person whom I have loved very, very much. I’ll share more about this on my next post, because I don’t want this post to get too long. But right now, I am just bursting with happiness that this problem which had tortured me for so long finally seems to have reached a peaceful conclusion.

I am also bursting to share with you many of the good eats I’ve had…some which go all the way back to Singapore (dang, I’m so behind)…but this post, in contradiction to all the positive things I’ve said above, will be about bad eats.

One thing I have to admit is that I did not enjoy the food here in Korea as much as the ones in Singapore. I don’t share the same enthusiasm towards Korean food as I do to Singaporean food. Not to say that Korean food is bad—I adore their bakeries and snacks, plus their sweet potatoes and watermelon are fan-freaking-stastic— but I just don’t really like most traditional Korean food, and I have not had as much freedom choosing what I want to eat here as I did in Singapore. For every meal out, I have left the decision to my relatives.

This particular meal out was chosen by my two cousins, Yoonji and Clara. Yoonji is from my mom’s side and Clara is from my dad’s side, but they both know each other because they visited me at the same time about 2 years ago. We decided to have lunch together, all four of us: me, Yoonji, Clara, and her friend Morgan.
IMG_5291Clara wanted donkatsu, so we went to a place called Yong Rest & Pub, or “Dragon”. At least, that’s what the Chinese symbol they use says:
IMG_5259I have no idea what this place is trying to be. Its concept is all over the place. It’s dark with posh decorations and purple velvet armchairs like an upscale coffee shop, but its food is rather cheap and mediocre. Its menu is Asian, but it serves a multi-course meal in western-style progression. I am thoroughly confused.

You first start out by choosing a main dish, and it is automatically included into a multi-course meal. We were started out first with guava juice:
IMG_5262 And then tea sandwiches:
IMG_5260 With the crusts removed, and filled with a thin spread of egg salad. Or something. It was okay.
IMG_5261 Next, soup:
IMG_5263 Not sure what kind of soup it is. It’s creamy. It’s rich. And it tastes like it came from a dry mix.

After that, salad:
IMG_5264 Or is it salad? More like a pinch of iceberg lettuce with a huge dollop of cloying dressing. I think it was ranch. Or something.

The next dish was even more ridiculous:
IMG_5266 Not that I have anything against kimchi and Korean pickled radish, but huh? It was so freaking random in conjunction with the previous courses.

Finally, our main course arrived. I had the tuna kimchi fried rice:
IMG_5274 It came with a fried egg on top, but I was disconcerted to find the yolk extremely well-cooked.
IMG_5275 Also, there were barely enough tuna flakes in there. I thought the server made a mistake at first, but then I came across about 5 tiny flakes of tuna. The fried rice wasn’t bad, though. I liked that they included black rice together with white rice such as this:
IMG_5281 Yoonji ordered the seafood fried rice:
IMG_5279 Not bad. I’d say she had the best dish of us all. I helped her out with her dish quite a bit.

Clara ordered the donkatsu, or fried pork cutlet:
IMG_5282 This was just mediocre. The breading was nice and crunchy, but the pork was low-quality. It was rather dry and too thin.
IMG_5284However, Morgan’s dish was probably the worst:
IMG_5269 He got the Mixed Set Meal, which came with a jumble of random things: spaghetti and tomato sauce, deep-fried fish, deep-fried pork cutlet, hamburger steak, kimchi fried rice, macaroni salad, and tater tots.

I felt bad for him because his was the most expensive dish, yet he barely at more than two forkfuls. He was mostly freaked out about why the sauce on top of his fish was baby pink:
IMG_5270 It turned out to be tartar sauce, but he refused to eat a pink one. Clara and I split it between us instead.

He also didn’t like his hamburger steak, which also came with too many colors, so I helped him eat it:
IMG_5273Neither did he like the little ball of kimchi fried rice:
IMG_5271 The only thing he liked was the macaroni salad and the tater tots:
IMG_5272 “Can I just order a huge side dish of tater tots?” He asked mournfully. Unfortunately, apparently the tater tots could not be ordered separately; they were made solely as a “bonus addition” to the Mixed Set Meal, and that only. Heavens know why.

Dessert came:
IMG_5285 We had a choice of coffee, tea, or ice-cream. The ice-cream came in chocolate, strawberry, and vanilla flavors, except we weren’t given a choice. We were just handed our ice-creams, each with different flavors or syrup. We took our time eating it because it was crappy, so the ice-cream kind of melted away into slush. Here’s Clara licking away:
IMG_5287 There was also the most random “refreshment” basket:
IMG_5286 Korean “cheese” sausages, cookies, and a banana. What the heck is up with the banana? I made Yoonji take it and the sausages home as her study snack. And Morgan ate the cookies, since he barely had any lunch.

So the food was lackluster. And so are the pictures (damn the dark fancy lighting!). But our time together certainly was not. My cousins Yoonji and Clara are anything but mediocre. They are so precious and lovable to me, and heck, Morgan is a pretty entertaining guy as well (though he keeps telling me I look like I’m 13, wtf!). We spent the whole time laughing and talking, with Clara and I doing the translations between Morgan and Yoonji’s conversation.
IMG_5288 This was the last day I got to see Yoonji. Yoonji was in the middle of her exams, but she still doled out 3 hours of her precious time for me, right in between her exam and study sessions. I felt really touched by that! Of course, she was also super curious about the 6’2 feet tall Jewish guy with waist-length hair, and she even asked for a picture together:
IMG_5289Can you see the difference in height? Ha ha ha! And Yoonji looks so happy! :-)
IMG_5290 It’s been a bittersweet week, to say so many goodbyes to all these people I love. I’m feeling rather melancholy, but at the same time…really, really happy and peaceful. I feel like I’ve learned and gained a lot from this trip, and I’m eager to continue on another journey when I return to America.

I’ll try to post one more time before I leave. But right now, a Top Chef marathon and dinner awaits me. Talk to you soon!
IMG_5070 Question of the Day: What is your idea of a successful traveling trip? What kind of trip are you on right now in life?

My idea of a successful trip = Great company + Good food + Meaningful insights and lessons + Enough conflicts/problems to keep things interesting + Positive perspective

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katie July 3, 2010 at 7:32 am

Aww I am SOO glad you had such a blessed time!! Sounds like God taught you a LOT and you grew so much!! thats AWEESOME girl! sorry about the not so great meal :(

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Danielle (Runs on Green) July 3, 2010 at 7:40 am

I really enjoyed reading about your trip! And I’m glad the 8-year conflict resolved itself :D

Mehhhh to all the disappointing food :? I’m still trying to figure out how they got the sauce pink lol

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Cynthia (It All Changes) July 3, 2010 at 7:59 am

For me a successful trip is that I’ve seen good friends and had great food. The rest is just details. I love trips to see friends.

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Lorraine @NotQuiteNigella July 4, 2010 at 9:33 pm

You knwo I just realised that I have only touched hte tip of the icerberg as far as Korean food goes! There is SO much great looking food that I have never tried. not for lack of wanting to, I don’t think I’ve ever seen it here!

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Karyn July 3, 2010 at 8:01 am

jeez great eats this whole trip. i need to start traveling with you ;)

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Erin July 3, 2010 at 8:14 am

I never thought I’d miss Korean food as much as I have lately. While living there, I got SO sick of it but now, I’m having massive cravings. Thankfully, a Korean friend is in town so we’re heading out tonight for some good eats. :) Glad you had such a wonderful trip!

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lindsay July 3, 2010 at 8:32 am

I am always in AWE of how God answers prayers! Like this trip for you. What a purposeful time it was and very healing I am sure. A successful trip to me is good company and food paired with quality time, rest, and maybe a little adventure!

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Run Sarah July 3, 2010 at 9:08 am

Your trip sounds like it has been so amazing – so many interesting places, family and friends, and not to mention food. The randomness of the food at that restaurant made me laugh – and I am usually all for random combos!

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Grace-Melody Moo July 3, 2010 at 10:24 am

I burst out laughing at the BABY PINK SAUCE part… and I couldn’t stop laughing till the end of your description of that restaurant :P You are so funny, Sophia.

I’m glad to have met you too this trip…just in case the next time we meet is on the other side of eternity :P Really treasured that lunch hour we had in Cedele. I pray that you will have a good, new, interesting term at college… and look forward to read more of ur bloggings! Lotsa love :)

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christina July 3, 2010 at 10:29 am

what an interesting combo of food at that place! glad you are having such a great time :)

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Carolyn @ lovinlosing July 3, 2010 at 11:05 am

That is the most random combination of foods I’ve ever seen. Hah!

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Dana July 3, 2010 at 11:07 am

Successful travel for me?
a tripe where I am happy and peaceful. (usually these trips are more spiritually related for me) The vacations that I go on to sight see and travel are never as relaxing. When I go on trips for spirtual reasons, they are always so refreshing, insightful, and wonderful!!

Im glad you are having such an awesome trip! You deserve it!! Do you get home sick at all while traveling?

Dana xoxo

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Ameena July 3, 2010 at 11:13 am

I love the high differences…so funny to imagine a 6’2″ Jewish guy in Korea.

If I can go on a trip and not want to come home, I consider that a total success. Wish me luck next week in DC…a trip with Maya should be interesting. Lets see if I consider it a success. :)

Have a safe trip back to the USA!

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Tori July 3, 2010 at 12:59 pm

Morgan reminds me of Jay. You know the Jay and Silent Bob characters?

What person would want a cheese sausage as a refreshment after a meal?? Haha!

<3 Tori

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Barbara July 3, 2010 at 1:21 pm

I had to skip down and write this quickly while reading the intro: Thank God for YOU! You are a wonderful human being- God created and a beautiful person! Now I’m going to go back and read about the eats!!
Barbara

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Me-Linh July 3, 2010 at 2:38 pm

I love all your photos from your trips! Makes me want to go to Asia and just eeeaattttt

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lynn @ the actors diet July 3, 2010 at 2:40 pm

welcome home, sophia! my definition of a successful trip is one where i feel like i really got a sense of the culture of wherever i visited, and that i grew emotionally as well.

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Joanne July 3, 2010 at 4:53 pm

Oh babe I’m so happy you had a good trip! It seems like you learned, experienced, and ate so much. I couldn’t be happier for you!

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Floey July 3, 2010 at 5:38 pm

Hey dear :)
Glad you had a wonderful trip. Your pics are priceless. I’ve pretty much never seen a dish full of pink sauce like that one. But–interesting. Haha. Glad you’ll be back in the states soon though, and I hope you have an amazing 4th of july.
What are your plans for the remainder of the summer?

<3 floey

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BroccoliHut July 3, 2010 at 6:03 pm

Haha, I have to admit that I’m a little freaked out by pink food too…but that didn’t stop me from eating my beet hummus the other day :)

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annie July 3, 2010 at 7:22 pm

oh sophia, i am glad you are having fun. it makes me happy knowing that you are enjoying everything right now. have more fun for me okay?

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Caroline July 3, 2010 at 7:51 pm

I am so sorry about that terrible meal. I hate going out to a restaurant and being excited to try good foods and then being disappointed. However, I realize it is not a bad thing to be able to say “Whatever, it’s just food. There will be plenty of other dinners.” It kinda helps me rid myself of the attachment. Plus, I guess I spend less time eating and more time talking.

I love that radish kimchi (I’m assuming that’s what the dish on the left is…or my friend deceived me), though!

A successful trip in my opinion involves a lot of laughing with friends, plus some gossip, some good movies, and, obviously, great food!

Your cousins are sooo cute!

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highonhealthy July 3, 2010 at 7:52 pm

What the heck.. I would be royally confused too if I went to a restaurant and received a meal like that. How do they even keep their doors open?

I’m currently on a life experience trip – find out what to do with myself. It’s turning out to be a longer trip than I ever imagined it would be.

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Barbara July 3, 2010 at 8:34 pm

I have examined your tuna fried rice dish and I would like to know WHERE those 4 tiny flecks of tuna are? Seriously? Where are they? I think I need a magnifying glass! I am so glad you have a lovely time! Family is so important! Your cousins are so wonderful and you glow in your pictures! Morgan reminds me of Jay and Silent Bob!
Barbara

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Valerie July 4, 2010 at 12:42 am

I guess a trip is successful to me if it accomplishes the goals that I have set out for myself. But I have also realized that sometimes, my goals may not be the same as God’s. And no matter what, He always accomplishes His purposes in His own timing. I just have to learn to be patient and to reflect on what He is really telling me. Have a safe trip back to US, Sophia! Thank you for taking us along this adventure of yours! It was such an enjoyable ride! =)

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Liwen July 4, 2010 at 1:09 am

Heh, the mixed set meal looks interesting.. By the way, I’m very happy for you that the confilct you had with that person has finally resolved, i think i can understand that feeling, really a great release and joy. Praise the Lord!!! :)

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Gena July 4, 2010 at 4:35 am

Sophia,

I’ve SO enjoyed reading your travel posts. They truly did form a wonderful and rich narrative this summer — I have no doubt that you’ll be writing full length dispatches or travel journalism in a few years!

And of course, the yummy food didn’t hurt my attention, either :)

G

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Anne @ Food Loving Polar Bear July 4, 2010 at 5:25 am

Even though the food was not very good, I’m glad you’re so happy! :)

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tra July 4, 2010 at 5:30 am

COSTCO is awesome. except when old ladies run over your feet with their carts. then it sucks. f’in hell.

sorry, i’ll keep my blog PG. =D

so glad you had a wonderful trip. =D it’s nice to spend time with the ones you love. i’m not sure what trip i’m on. probably on a self-discovery one.

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Ashley@thehungryscholar July 4, 2010 at 5:50 am

This adventure looks like so much fun. I think the picture of your friend licking her ice cream bowl is cute.

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kelsey@snackingsquirrel.com July 4, 2010 at 6:51 am

hamburger steak..mmm..just saying that sounds delicious hehe :)

haha it almost looks like a family portrait haha with u guys all standing there like that! love it!

xoxo

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Kristin (Salty Tooth) July 4, 2010 at 7:03 am

A banana and cheese, definitely an interesting combo. Looks like a fun time!

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kcjones July 4, 2010 at 9:20 am

I’m so glad that your trip has been a success, even if the meals weren’t always… I consider a successful trip one in which I am able to enjoy myself in the moment, instead of anxiously worrying about every little thing. In a couple of days, I am going on a short trip to Gatlinburg and I’m excited, because it’s a trip with my brother and I don’t get to spend much time with him.

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The Candid RD July 4, 2010 at 10:33 am

I’m so glad you had a fantastic trip Sophia. It sounds like you got a lot accomplished and really took advantage of all the time you had with family and friends. I loved learning about all of the difference foods and I’m still in awe of many of them. Above I can’t get over how GOOD tuna kimchi fried rice sounds!!! And, I love that they put fried eggs on just about everything. Heaven. The cheese sausages are hilarious! They are like funky cheese sticks.

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Christina July 4, 2010 at 10:53 am

Ew, yeah, Morgan’s meal doesn’t sound (or look) appetizing at all! I hope you shared!

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My Man's Belly July 4, 2010 at 11:38 am

Sounds like a fantastic trip. Putting all those interpersonal problems to rest is such a great feeling of lightness. I know, because I’m in the middle of some of that myself. Have a safe trip home!

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jenn (Bread + Butter) July 4, 2010 at 3:35 pm

I’ve have to agree with you on your idea of a good trip. #1 would be good company and food. i can deal with everything else on the fly. hehehe…

Thanks for taking us along on your trip. I have many wishes to to want my recent vacation to be longer than two weeks. Hopefully next time, right?

As for my trip on life right now…I’m still finding that out. it’s a topsy turvy one right now and I’m enjoying it quite a bit.

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Carolyn Jung July 4, 2010 at 4:59 pm

PINK tartar sauce?!? Oh man, that looks frightening, indeed. LOL

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Jolene (www.everydayfoodie.ca) July 4, 2010 at 7:58 pm

Successful traveling trip = Great food + lots to do.

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Averie (LoveVeggiesAndYoga) July 4, 2010 at 9:46 pm

the trip i am on is one called motherhood & self identity. How to be an amazing mother while carving out time for myself and retaining a piece of my own identity. While being a good partner to my husband and friend to my friends. Balance. That’s my trip. I’ll let you know when i get there :)

Your question Ani’s name and pronunciation…I think it’s Ahhhh-ni. But I have no idea :)

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lequan@luvtoeat July 5, 2010 at 2:03 pm

Is it just me or does everyone in the second last picture look slightly tilted to the right? Teehee, cute!

My idea of a successful traveling is when I don’t forget to pack anything and remember to pack everything when I come back. Also, because I love to eat I probably would have mapped out a couple places I’d for sure want to try, so if all those are crossed off my list then mission accomplished indeed :-P

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Veronica Miller July 5, 2010 at 8:19 pm

You cracked me up with your description of this place and the food! I loved the “or something”‘s!! I’m glad your trip has been so wonderful.

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OysterCulture July 6, 2010 at 5:58 am

What a great wrap up, so happy you had such a good time. Except for that meal of course, everything else looked amazing

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pigpigscorner July 6, 2010 at 9:05 am

Welcome back! and what’s with that pink tartar sauce? Wonder what they put it that!

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thenomadGourmand July 7, 2010 at 11:15 pm

OMG!! that food is crap alright!!

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Dee July 8, 2010 at 10:14 am

i’m late. As per usual but I wanted to comment and say thank you for sharing your experiences on your trip with us. It was so wonderful to see it through your eyes, camera, and stomach! ;)

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Ali July 12, 2010 at 6:31 am

I stumbled across your blog through some other blogs I read. I’ve been living in Korea for the past years and am a graduate student here now (from the US). It’s really nice to see Korea (and Korean food) show up on a food blog. ^^

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plumber pewsey May 5, 2011 at 5:06 pm

Sick! Just got a brand-new Pearl and I can now read your blog on my phone’s browser, it didn’t work on my outdated 1.

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