Hello, hello! Guess where I am now? I’m in my Mother Country, Korea! I left Singapore last night and took an overnight flight with my parents to Incheon, and now we are spending a day here to recuperate before meeting my grandmother in Seoul, then traveling 4 hours down south to my “hometown” in Jeon-Ju.
It’s been such a pleasant and rewarding and exhilarating trip to Southeast Asia. There are many, many things running in my mind—the biggest emotion being gratefulness for the opportunity to come back, but stabbed with a dart of sorrow that I had to leave my dear friends behind. I’m not sure when I’ll see them again, but they will always be in my heart and mind.
I need a bit of time to process all the blessings and insights I’ve received from my SE Asia trip, and I still have a LOT of pictures to share with you…but for now, I think I want to revel in the fact that I have my parents all to myself, in the country I was born in.
You know what? Before I left Singapore, I was complaining about going back to Korea, and not only because I have to leave my friends. You see, even though I was born, bred, and identified as Korean…I can’t say I have the deepest affection for my own country. My passport clearly states that I’m a Korean citizen, but I rarely feel, act, think, or dress Korean. And yes, I have a certain bias against my own countrymen.
But I now realize that I was being immature and silly. Even before I set foot on Korean grounds, I was preparing myself for a boring, awkward time here as a misfit and an outsider. So what if people stare at me that I am wearing flip-flops. So what if the saleslady gasped in aghast when I told her I don’t use cream or lotion or sunscreen. I still share the same blood as them, and I have to admit, it feels…kind of good.
There is a particular…smell in Korea. It doesn’t smell good or bad; just a distinct, familiar smell that washes me with some unidentifiable emotion close to nostalgia the moment I step out of the plane. No matter what prejudice I may have, this place does hold a sentiment for me. No matter how much I may clash with the culture here, I was raised with the culture printed somewhere within me.
So. This return back to my homeland with my parents? I’m gonna treat it exactly as so—a return to my “ancient home”. I may feel awkward. I may feel out of place. But I want to embrace this place, and learn to be able to appreciate any place I am in at the moment.
Oh, and another thing I’ve realized? It’s childish to complain because for God’s sake, has anyone been more pampered during this trip than me?! Hello?! “Forced” to take business class. Loved and spoiled by everyone she meets. Hosted by the most wonderful, liberating couple in the world. Fed glorious food, meal after meal.
Lord, thank you. I am the luckiest brat in the world.
I was very spoiled on my way back, too. I had 21 of my church friends out to send my parents and I off. They treated us to a multi-course feast, too. Remember Crystal Jade restaurant, where I had the four-colored dumplings with Jing Wen?
We went to another branch, this time specializing in exquisite Cantonese cuisine. Since it is located in Changi Airport, we met up for an early dinner before our departure. We were such a big group, however, that we had to split into two tables:
Look at us. One big happy family.
My parents and Pastor Vincent:
And here’s the pastor’s wife blessing us with her prayer: ![]()
The food was served family-style, too, in big portions, one by one. And they were all meticulously chosen by our church’s own food gourmand, Vilon:
I’d say he’s the Jonathon Gold, the Mark Bitterman of our church in Singapore. Just look at that expression. It’s the kind of face and precise criticism that causes chefs to quake in their chef whites (or clogs).
First up, was the Mapo Tofu, or Braised Beancurd with Minced Pork & Chili Sauce:
This wasn’t my favorite, but Jing Wen dominated this dish. She loves tofu like I love cheese. I can get this dish anytime in America and I dislike soft tofu, but I had to admit this was done really well.
The tofu was smooth like pudding, the sauce intensely flavorful from liberal pork meat, fat, and juices. Still, I tried to save my stomach space for the next dish, which was Sautéed String Bean with Preserved Vegetable and Minced Pork:
Yet another familiar dish you can get in America. If you like green beans, you’ll love this dish. It was cooked perfectly—crunchy yet softly cooked inside, glistening with flavorful oil, and jazzed up with some pork and pickled vegetables.
The next dish is something you see regularly in Chinatown, probably hanging ostentatiously in a showcase window:
Roasted duck, Hong Kong style! I wish I could sound like a roast duck connoisseur as I analyze its level of crisp skin and tender flesh, blah blah blah…but all I can say is that it tastes good. I haven’t eaten enough roast duck in my life to compare it to others.
Next up, Stir-Fried “Hor-Fun” with Beef:
If you remember from this post, I’ve had hor fun (flat, wide rice noodles) but it was drenched in gravy. This one came dry-fried, but I didn’t taste anything “dry” about this dish, possibly because I was salivating so much while eating it…it was so good!
Once again, a dish you can get anywhere in Chinatown…so I highly recommend seeking it out! And if you like pig, and don’t mind the smell of it, I also recommend this dish:
Roast suckling pig and Char Siew slices:
I avoided this dish because I couldn’t really stand the overpowering smell, but it was gone within seconds so I’m guessing it was good! But the best dish, in my opinion, was this dish:
Braised Kailan with Lingzhi Mushroom & Oyster Sauce
Oh my God! Delicious! The vegetable was just so fresh and perfectly cooked, and I adore mushrooms, so this was the perfect dish! The next dish was also surprisingly good:
”Yang Zhou” Fried Rice. I say with deep humility that this rice dish rocked my socks. I admit, rice can be pretty good if cooked the right way. Preferably, wok-fried Cantonese style with juicy shrimp, Chinese sausage, peas, cabbage, eggs and scallions.
The next two dishes paled in comparison, though. Here’s the Baked Spare Ribs with Sweet & Sour Sauce:
My dad told me he loved this dish, but I found it horrible, simply because it combined two of my least favorite things: ribs, and sweet & sour sauce.
But if you like ribs and sweet & sour sauce, do give it a try. Be prepared to pay quite a bit for it, though. This dish is not cheap! The next dish was also a sweet & sour dish:
Deep-Fried Diced Fish with Pine in Sweet & Sour Sauce.
Hm. I did try one and it was amazingly crispy with a lovely batter, but the pungent sweet & sour sauce kind of ruined the good fish. But the next dish was stellar:
Pan-Fried Diced Beef in Sliced Garlic
My second favorite dish!! This had TONS of deep-fried, beef-juice-soaked garlic in it, and you bet I scraped out every last crispy garlic I could get! And the beef was so tender! YUM! Every meal has to end with a sweet note, so the last dish was a unique dessert:
Chilled Water Chestnut Cream with Pomelo, served in individual portions
This dish was clear, light, and refreshing, with a lovely citrus note from the fresh Pomelo flesh.
The ending to the day was sweet too, but with a hint of bitterness. Pretty soon it was time for departure, and my parents and I had to hurry off. We huddled into a big group to say a final prayer together, and then hugged good-bye. I didn’t cry. But I already started missing each one of them as I walked away. I really, really hope I can see them again soon.
I drowned my sorrows in yet another multi-course dinner during the flight back. Yes, I’m still miraculously in business class! Look, I can stretch out my legs and still have room to wiggle them around!
With pretty air stewardesses to bow to my every whim!
We were given a choice of western or Asian cuisine, and I chose western. They started me out with a small appetizer platter:
Smoked salmon with asparagus:
Cold rice noodle salad:
Fresh garlic toast:
And then, main course:
Braised beef with ginko nuts, chestnuts, goji berries, and dates. Served with sauteed vegetables and white rice.
Next up, my favorite dish…a mini cheese platter!
Blue cheese, cheddar cheese, fresh fruits, and a wedge of brown bread. And ending with a sweet note of cheesecake in strawberry sauce:
Suffice to say, my stomach was bursting by the time I was done and I slept like a baby. When I woke up, the plane had already reached Incheon Airport in Korea. I met up with my parents (they had to take another airline), and now we’re spending a night in Incheon.
We crashed when we reached the hotel. Several days of little sleep finally caught up with me, and my poor parents did not get a wink of sleep because they were cramped up in economy class. We took a very long nap, and when we woke up, all of our stomachs were growling.
Since my dad had worked really hard from his mission trip, we let him choose the place of venue to dine. Of course, he chose his favorite Korean-Chinese place near our hotel:
My parents always visit this place when they’re around, so the owner actually recognized us. She’s Chinese, so she seemed to relish in the opportunity to speak Chinese with her customer. Meanwhile, I relished in enjoying the interior design: ![]()
We started off with the usual side dishes that come with all Korean-Chinese ciusine:
Fresh sliced onions doused in vinegar, kimchi, black bean sauce, and pickled radish.
Then we shared a dish of boiled dumplings:
Because this is Chinese style, the filling was heavy on meat and the dumpling skin was thick.
My dad ordered a bowl of spicy seafood noodles, called Jjam Bbong:
Pungent, spicy, and chock-full of onions, zucchini, and seafood.
My mom and I shared a deluxe plate of black bean noodles (jja jang myeon) for two:
This is one of my favorite dishes in Korea. It looks black and hideous, but is so, so good. I can’t explain the taste—you’ve got to try it for yourself. Ours came with abalone, shrimp, onions, and beef.
And for our sweet end, sweet, rich pieces of mooncake:
And right now, I’m cuddling with my parents, slurping on shitake oyster porridge, dumplings, beef jerky, chocolates, ice-cream, and the World Cup, where Portugal is brutally butchering North Korea.
I really am the luckiest brat alive. I’m not sure when is the next time I can get Internet access, but I’ll do some updates on my last days in Singapore when I get back. In the meantime, please have a pamperful day for me yourself!
Question of the Day: When do you feel like the luckiest person in the world? How do you like to be spoiled?
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I am so happy for you, Sophia! You look like you are having such a wonderful time. I too feel the most blessed when I am surrounded by my family.
I love the pictures of Korea – a place I have never been. Glad you are having such a fantastic time with your parents. I can’t wait to learn more about Korea.
I feel like the luckiest girl most of the time…my parents are in good health, as is Maya, and I have a husband that puts up with my non-stop nonsense. I really have nothing to complain about (even though I still complain)!
Singapore to Korea? Wow! Can you pack me in your suitcase?
It looks like you are having a wonderful time…and the food, I don’t even know where to begin. It all looks so fresh and decadent! Business class? That’s when I would feel lucky
When I got to spend 3 months traveling Europe I felt very blessed – very few people get that opportunity and traveling is surely a luxury. HAVE A BLAST! Keep posting these amazing photos and making me hungry for lunch by 9:10am
You are the luckiest brat in the world! It’s so great to be have such a large loving family! – Although you shouldn’t make a habit of taking pictures while praying
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BTW, Singapore Airlines is my favorite!
SIA (singapore airlines) is one of the best in the world, indeed! But I was taking Asiana airlines…gotta support the Korean business!
I love Singapore airlines! They are always so nice
Glad your having such a great time, you deserve it!
Who doesnt like being spoiled? I would call them crazy
Dana xo
http://happinessiswithin.wordpress
crazy girl- you’re all over traveling! i’m so jeal!
i feel like the luckiest girl in the world when
a)i get a ton of comments
b)i am with my Crossfit LA people and working out
c) i am with my CFLA people in general
d) when i get free samples
i love to be spoiled with clothes, workout gear mostly, and running shoes.
Well I was an only child, so I was VERY spoiled! Even though I have a brother now I still grew up being an only child so I was always the center of attention. He will be too I guess! Nothing wrong with being a little spoiled now and then.
<3 Tori
I hope you have a great time in your country! All those eats look so wonderful, I wish I could try them all, specially that duck! I never went to a chinese restaurant, only japanese and some kind of oriental…
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I have to change that
I feel like the luckiest girl when I’m with my bf, in his safe arms, enjoying and laughing with him.
I hear you too about not “identifying” with the motherland. I’m Chinese but I swear, I am sooo uncultured. It’s sad really. When I go back to China, I’m going to be a “westerner” that sticks out like a sore thumb. My Chinese is horrible, I can barely get by with it here in the States! Oh well, I’ll have to learn more about China someday.
I totally know what all those dishes you had were. My dad makes all of them. Yum!
The black noodles you and your mom got looks divine. Like I said, I’m Chinese so no “weird looking” dish puts me off too much. Honestly, those are the best right?
Hope you enjoy the rest of your time in Korea Sophia!
That’s some pretty awesome airplane food!! You are very lucky
I LOVE family style meals. And that one looks especially delicious!
<3 jess
xoxo
OMG I TOTALLY WENT TO THE SAME RESTAURANT LAST TIME! my sister hated that place cause the waitress spilled jjajangmyun sauce on her and she got blisters. pretty delicious though!
Great travelogue. It makes up for the fact that I am staying put and have a long vacation with my laptop and a pile of work.
I love when I see pictures of your parents…I feel like I know them =) I hope you have a great time honey!
I never knew “Korean Chinese” as a specific type of cuisine, but now I totally recognize it! We had this “Chinese” restaurant back in my hometown that used to sell the dark black jja jang myeon and a seafood noodle soup that looks exactly like the one in your picture! It’s not a surprise that it was owned by Chinese people who had grown up in Korea!
I love your grateful attitude. I have grouchy, negative days, but in general, I know I’m the “luckiest girl in the world.” I live in a beautiful place (Southern California), I have a great job, I’m married to a great guy, we own a cute little condo, we have great cats we consider our children, my family is healthy and full of love, and I never feel “deprived.” I love to be spoiled with time — time to veg, time to relax, time to spend with myself. My husband is good about that
Wow Im still oogling over what business class looks like, the food looks great on it, normally airplane food is shocking!
. In fact a lot of those dishes were, there are so many asian style dishes I like.
That last restaurant you visited looked absolutely lovely, the seafood noodles especially very tempting
Enjoy the rest of your trip!
xox
Laura
Ya, your pretty lucky! Or rather….God has blessed you in numerous way this trip. So cool to see!! Have fun in your hometown.
WOW i dont think ive seen so many dishes before! those look succulent <3
we have a restaurant similar to that called the Jade Fountain. but im pretty sure the food aint as amazing as this!! <3
You have been so lucky and blessed to be able to have such an amazing trip and eats lots of yummy food!!
Korean cuisine looks amazing!! I want to eat it allllllll!!
I have not seen this much amazing looking food in any single post in a looooong time! I love you described it so lovingly and made all the restaurant trips fun with friends and family! Awesome. I don’t like to be spoiled, but I don’t mind when my grandfather gives me cash, which happens…pretty much every time I see him.
Have loads of fun in Korea!
It looks like you’re eating good!
I feel lucky to have such a patient and understanding mum
It has been so interesting to follow your travels recently, and for the record I think everyone deserves to be spoiled every now and then
Sarah x
Every time I have been lucky enough to ride business or first class I always get off the plane so full that they have to roll me off the plane. But who can turn down “free” delicious food and dessert?! On a flight to New Zealand, after a hugeee 3 course meal, they served up my weakness: Vanilla bean ice cream sundaes. Oh man. So good. Too good.
Business class AND garlic bread…WOW;)
Looks like a beautiful time and I’m glad you’re sharing it girl. Enjoy every minute!
xxx Julia (Taste of Living)
You should start a new series…Where In the World Is Burp and Slurp?
I feel the luckiest when i’m with my grandma. I have lost all my other grandparents in the last 6 years. I treasure her very much. I also feel lucky knowing I was 28 before I lost my first grandparent.
This might sound sappy but I feel like the luckiest girl in the world every day because of the way my parents treat me and allow me to live with them even at an age when I should be married with 2.5 kids. I love how they’ll listen to me moan, put up with my moping, encourage me and act as friends as well as parents. I’ve learned to appreciate them a lot more recently and honestly, I think everything they do constitutes spoiling me, particularly the wonderful meals my Mum cooks for me because I’m just too inept.
Minus the pork, I would love that first tofu dish
Keep on having a wonderful time with your parents!
xxx
Not at all sappy! I think you ARE incredibly blessed to have parents like that…and so am I! I also moan and mope and groan and indulge in a lot of self-pitying, but my parents are always so loving and tender. I’m so happy that you’ve got your source of comfort and joy right beside you!
I wish I loved tofu as much as I love cheese!! Wouldn’t that be greaT? Or better yet, as much as I love PEANUT BUTTER! I’d be one healthy lady.
I love your honesty Sophia. I think the beginning of this post was so open and candid, and I applaud you for writing it. I mean I’m sure it wasn’t easy to admit to yourself, and all of us, that you are slightly prejudice towards your own country. But good for you for being ready to embrace is with love and affection!
You guys really went to town on that Chinese food! It all looks so good, but I can see why your favorite dishes were your favorites. I’m sure you’ll have fun in Singapore even though you’re not SUPER looking forward to it!
And by Singapore I meant Korea.
It looks like you are having such a good time! Enjoy it!!
I feel the luckiest when I am surrounded by family and friends!
I could eat all of that food every day. Holy cow how amazing! So much variety! I love the looks of it.
Except airplane food. I’m not a fan of that much at all. haha
How exciting — you must be thrilled! I hope you and your parents have a fantastic time!
Wow, that mooncake looks amazing! Is that something that can be made at home?
Oh Sophia…I am sure that you are enjoying every minute…nothing like being around people that you love and love you
Sophia: I had a question do you know what Lingzhi means? I had a friend who has now gone back to China and her name was Lingzhi. Funny there is a dish with that name.
I feel like the luckiest person most of the time. I am blessed with the best family and a great husband.
Haha, I doubt your friend has the same name as the “Lingzhi” of Lingzhi mushroom, Priyanka! You see, even though they may seem to be the same in English, Chinese is rather complicated in that there are 4 different accents to the same word, and each word has a totally different meaning. “Ling” can be pronounced in 4 different ways with myriads of different meanings.
The “Lingzhi” in the mushroom means “Spirit Herb” translated word for word, though. I wonder what the “Ling zhi” in your friend’s name is though! Do ask her!
I love how you were able to get a second chance to bond with your home country. And wow, that fried rice looks good!
I feel most spoiled when I’m on vacation too since we usually eat out every meal and don’t feel bad about splurging on anything!
I feel very lucky that my job allows me to travel and make my own schedule. I like having freedom to do my ministry but still have fun.
I just want to say… Amen sister girlfriend to your post.
And omygod at the food. The fried rice and the hor fun looked especially appealing!
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Happy summer!
stumble upon your blog! lovely blog you have here. Found you on foodbuzz
Jen
Such a lovely time!
I feel spoiled and incredibly lucky very often… some days, I’m just amazed at the beauty of life and how wonderful the world has been to me. That’s true happiness, I think.
I feel spoiled and lucky when I get to be someplace beautiful with the people I love! Also, I’m ready to hop on a plane and travel and eat with you!
You are a traveling woman–I love it! And I am sooo glad you take all the time you
do to share with everyone! And I’ve never eaten duck, but I’d be willing to try!
Oh my god I just ate dinner but I’m hungry all over again! You really are lucky!
I have NEVER been on a flight like that!!! WOW!!
One of my students is leaving tomorrow for South Korea! She is from there, and is going back for the summer to visit family.
I like to be spoiled with massages!!
Ohmygoodness, your posts reminds me of all the Chinese banquet dinners that I’ve been to when I was younger. Because of my ED, I tended to avoid them, but hopefully I can go back soon. Some of those dishes bring back a lot of sweet memories! Kudos to you though for trying all those dishes! Such flavorful bites!
When I was going through treatment, my therapist would often take me to get my nails done. I realized that she was just trying to teach me how to take care of myself and let my experience simple pleasures in life. Right now, because I’m a poor college student–pampering myself is just a nice relaxing day not having to worry about studying for exams or doing homework…sleeping in…surfing the web…and spending time with those I love.
xoxo floey.
안영 하세요!
I’m a long time reader, first time blogger/commenter, but I am also from Seoul and I know the smell that you’re talking about.
I miss that smell all the time.
It looks like you’re having a fantastic trip, Sophia! You are so fortunate to be in the company of your family, enjoying the culture and cuisine of Korea and SE Asia! Can I come join you?
I’ve been moseying through your blog tonight, and am loving it. You have such an interesting story! I really appreciate your humor and genuineness.
Question: Are you still doing the warm fuzzy club? I somehow ended up on that page, but when I clicked the list of blogs, the link didn’t connect. I’d love to be part of this, if it’s still running!
I hope you continue to enjoy your time in Korea! I’m looking forward to reading more about your adventures!
Everything looked so good! And you’re sooo lucky to have gotten to fly business class. I always fly economy and gaze longingly at the front of the plane where the seats are cushier, roomier, and where they serve the better food. omg cheese platter?! XD
Lucky indeed, plus all of these delicious food, I must say you are very very lucky!
Lucky you! I’ve always wanted to go to Korea!
Love the socks, cute!
I want to fly business class too – cheese plate! WOW!
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