Luckiest Brat in the World

June 21, 2010

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Hello, hello! Guess where I am now? I’m in my Mother Country, Korea! I left Singapore last night and took an overnight flight with my parents to Incheon, and now we are spending a day here to recuperate before meeting my grandmother in Seoul, then traveling 4 hours down south to my “hometown” in Jeon-Ju.

It’s been such a pleasant and rewarding and exhilarating trip to Southeast Asia. There are many, many things running in my mind—the biggest emotion being gratefulness for the opportunity to come back, but stabbed with a dart of sorrow that I had to leave my dear friends behind. I’m not sure when I’ll see them again, but they will always be in my heart and mind.

I need a bit of time to process all the blessings and insights I’ve received from my SE Asia trip, and I still have a LOT of pictures to share with you…but for now, I think I want to revel in the fact that I have my parents all to myself, in the country I was born in.

You know what? Before I left Singapore, I was complaining about going back to Korea, and not only because I have to leave my friends. You see, even though I was born, bred, and identified as Korean…I can’t say I have the deepest affection for my own country. My passport clearly states that I’m a Korean citizen, but I rarely feel, act, think, or dress Korean. And yes, I have a certain bias against my own countrymen.

But I now realize that I was being immature and silly. Even before I set foot on Korean grounds, I was preparing myself for a boring, awkward time here as a misfit and an outsider. So what if people stare at me that I am wearing flip-flops. So what if the saleslady gasped in aghast when I told her I don’t use cream or lotion or sunscreen. I still share the same blood as them, and I have to admit, it feels…kind of good.

There is a particular…smell in Korea. It doesn’t smell good or bad; just a distinct, familiar smell that washes me with some unidentifiable emotion close to nostalgia the moment I step out of the plane. No matter what prejudice I may have, this place does hold a sentiment for me. No matter how much I may clash with the culture here, I was raised with the culture printed somewhere within me.

So. This return back to my homeland with my parents? I’m gonna treat it exactly as so—a return to my “ancient home”. I may feel awkward. I may feel out of place. But I want to embrace this place, and learn to be able to appreciate any place I am in at the moment.

Oh, and another thing I’ve realized? It’s childish to complain because for God’s sake, has anyone been more pampered during this trip than me?! Hello?! “Forced” to take business class. Loved and spoiled by everyone she meets. Hosted by the most wonderful, liberating couple in the world. Fed glorious food, meal after meal.

Lord, thank you. I am the luckiest brat in the world. :-)

I was very spoiled on my way back, too. I had 21 of my church friends out to send my parents and I off. They treated us to a multi-course feast, too. Remember Crystal Jade restaurant, where I had the four-colored dumplings with Jing Wen?

IMG_4876 We went to another branch, this time specializing in exquisite Cantonese cuisine. Since it is located in Changi Airport, we met up for an early dinner before our departure. We were such a big group, however, that we had to split into two tables:
IMG_4880Look at us. One big happy family.
IMG_4882My parents and Pastor Vincent:
IMG_4881And here’s the pastor’s wife blessing us with her prayer:
IMG_4899IMG_4898  The food was served family-style, too, in big portions, one by one. And they were all meticulously chosen by our church’s own food gourmand, Vilon:
IMG_4913 I’d say he’s the Jonathon Gold, the Mark Bitterman of our church in Singapore. Just look at that expression. It’s the kind of face and precise criticism that causes chefs to quake in their chef whites (or clogs).

First up, was the Mapo Tofu, or Braised Beancurd with Minced Pork & Chili Sauce:
IMG_4883 This wasn’t my favorite, but Jing Wen dominated this dish. She loves tofu like I love cheese. I can get this dish anytime in America and I dislike soft tofu, but I had to admit this was done really well. 
IMG_4884 The tofu was smooth like pudding, the sauce intensely flavorful from liberal pork meat, fat, and juices. Still, I tried to save my stomach space for the next dish, which was Sautéed String Bean with Preserved Vegetable and Minced Pork:
IMG_4889 Yet another familiar dish you can get in America. If you like green beans, you’ll love this dish. It was cooked perfectly—crunchy yet softly cooked inside, glistening with flavorful oil, and jazzed up with some pork and pickled vegetables.
 
IMG_4890 The next dish is something you see regularly in Chinatown, probably hanging ostentatiously in a showcase window:
IMG_4892Roasted duck, Hong Kong style! I wish I could sound like a roast duck connoisseur as I analyze its level of crisp skin and tender flesh, blah blah blah…but all I can say is that it tastes good. I haven’t eaten enough roast duck in my life to compare it to others.
IMG_4894 Next up, Stir-Fried “Hor-Fun” with Beef:
IMG_4895 If you remember from this post, I’ve had hor fun (flat, wide rice noodles) but it was drenched in gravy. This one came dry-fried, but I didn’t taste anything “dry” about this dish, possibly because I was salivating so much while eating it…it was so good!
IMG_4897 Once again, a dish you can get anywhere in Chinatown…so I highly recommend seeking it out! And if you like pig, and don’t mind the smell of it, I also recommend this dish:
IMG_4900 Roast suckling pig and Char Siew slices:
IMG_4901 I avoided this dish because I couldn’t really stand the overpowering smell, but it was gone within seconds so I’m guessing it was good! But the best dish, in my opinion, was this dish:
IMG_4902 Braised Kailan with Lingzhi Mushroom & Oyster Sauce
IMG_4903 Oh my God! Delicious! The vegetable was just so fresh and perfectly cooked, and I adore mushrooms, so this was the perfect dish! The next dish was also surprisingly good:
IMG_4904 ”Yang Zhou” Fried Rice. I say with deep humility that this rice dish rocked my socks. I admit, rice can be pretty good if cooked the right way. Preferably, wok-fried Cantonese style with juicy shrimp, Chinese sausage, peas, cabbage, eggs and scallions.
IMG_4905 The next two dishes paled in comparison, though. Here’s the Baked Spare Ribs with Sweet & Sour Sauce:
IMG_4907 My dad told me he loved this dish, but I found it horrible, simply because it combined two of my least favorite things: ribs, and sweet & sour sauce.
IMG_4908 But if you like ribs and sweet & sour sauce, do give it a try. Be prepared to pay quite a bit for it, though. This dish is not cheap! The next dish was also a sweet & sour dish:
IMG_4909 Deep-Fried Diced Fish with Pine in Sweet & Sour Sauce.
IMG_4910 Hm. I did try one and it was amazingly crispy with a lovely batter, but the pungent sweet & sour sauce kind of ruined the good fish. But the next dish was stellar:
IMG_4911 Pan-Fried Diced Beef in Sliced Garlic
IMG_4912 My second favorite dish!! This had TONS of deep-fried, beef-juice-soaked garlic in it, and you bet I scraped out every last crispy garlic I could get! And the beef was so tender! YUM! Every meal has to end with a sweet note, so the last dish was a unique dessert:
IMG_4915 Chilled Water Chestnut Cream with Pomelo, served in individual portions
IMG_4917 This dish was clear, light, and refreshing, with a lovely citrus note from the fresh Pomelo flesh.

The ending to the day was sweet too, but with a hint of bitterness. Pretty soon it was time for departure, and my parents and I had to hurry off. We huddled into a big group to say a final prayer together, and then hugged good-bye. I didn’t cry. But I already started missing each one of them as I walked away. I really, really hope I can see them again soon.

I drowned my sorrows in yet another multi-course dinner during the flight back. Yes, I’m still miraculously in business class! Look, I can stretch out my legs and still have room to wiggle them around!
IMG_4928 With pretty air stewardesses to bow to my every whim!
IMG_4929 We were given a choice of western or Asian cuisine, and I chose western. They started me out with a small appetizer platter:
IMG_4931 Smoked salmon with asparagus:
IMG_4932 Cold rice noodle salad:
IMG_4934 Fresh garlic toast:
IMG_4933 And then, main course:
IMG_4936 Braised beef with ginko nuts, chestnuts, goji berries, and dates. Served with sauteed vegetables and white rice.
IMG_4937 Next up, my favorite dish…a mini cheese platter!
IMG_4940 Blue cheese, cheddar cheese, fresh fruits, and a wedge of brown bread. And ending with a sweet note of cheesecake in strawberry sauce:
IMG_4941 Suffice to say, my stomach was bursting by the time I was done and I slept like a baby. When I woke up, the plane had already reached Incheon Airport in Korea. I met up with my parents (they had to take another airline), and now we’re spending a night in Incheon.

We crashed when we reached the hotel. Several days of little sleep finally caught up with me, and my poor parents did not get a wink of sleep because they were cramped up in economy class. We took a very long nap, and when we woke up, all of our stomachs were growling.

Since my dad had worked really hard from his mission trip, we let him choose the place of venue to dine. Of course, he chose his favorite Korean-Chinese place near our hotel:
IMG_4943My parents always visit this place when they’re around, so the owner actually recognized us. She’s Chinese, so she seemed to relish in the opportunity to speak Chinese with her customer. Meanwhile, I relished in enjoying the interior design:
IMG_4942IMG_4944  We started off with the usual side dishes that come with all Korean-Chinese ciusine:
IMG_4945 Fresh sliced onions doused in vinegar, kimchi, black bean sauce, and pickled radish.

Then we shared a dish of boiled dumplings:
IMG_4946 Because this is Chinese style, the filling was heavy on meat and the dumpling skin was thick.
IMG_4948 My dad ordered a bowl of spicy seafood noodles, called Jjam Bbong:
IMG_4950 Pungent, spicy, and chock-full of onions, zucchini, and seafood.
IMG_4951 My mom and I shared a deluxe plate of black bean noodles (jja jang myeon) for two:
IMG_4949 This is one of my favorite dishes in Korea. It looks black and hideous, but is so, so good. I can’t explain the taste—you’ve got to try it for yourself. Ours came with abalone, shrimp, onions, and beef.
IMG_4952And for our sweet end, sweet, rich pieces of mooncake:
IMG_4953And right now, I’m cuddling with my parents, slurping on shitake oyster porridge, dumplings, beef jerky, chocolates, ice-cream, and the World Cup, where Portugal is brutally butchering North Korea.

I really am the luckiest brat alive. I’m not sure when is the next time I can get Internet access, but I’ll do some updates on my last days in Singapore when I get back. In the meantime, please have a pamperful day for me yourself! :-)

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Mica June 22, 2010 at 4:18 am

Ha, rest assured that if YOU feel like an outsider in Korea, I will always feel like one too! We can form a 100% natural (no plastic surgery!), flip-flop wearing, tanned Korean club.

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Maytina June 22, 2010 at 7:18 am

Wow!! I am drooling over here!! I love roasted duck and I am such a sucker for noodles everything looks fantastic. It’s so good you have been able to come around to be in Korea even though you don’t feel immediately connected, it’s so true that like it or not, those are your roots. Embrace them! <3

Hope you have internet again soon, I have loved reading about your travels and food!

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Mary (A Merry Life) June 22, 2010 at 7:58 am

You just might be the luckiest person in the world! Your food and family and travels all seem amazing! hope you enjoy the rest of your time there!

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Lawyer Loves Lunch June 22, 2010 at 8:27 am

It somehow doesn’t seem fair. You get to travel AND eat fabulous food? The fried fish and the rice noodles looked particularly delectable :)

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jenn (Bread + Butter) June 22, 2010 at 1:25 pm

It’s always great to return to one’s on homeland. I know the feeling all too well when I went on my trip to the Philippines a few weeks ago. I miss my family dearly.

I need to fly business class next time!!!! hahaha…

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BroccoliHut June 22, 2010 at 2:53 pm

I’ll take a pound and a half of that tofu. Please and thank you.

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Carolyn Jung June 22, 2010 at 5:54 pm

You are making me so hungry with these photos. Seriously, I’m craving a Chinese banquet — big-time. And I am especially drooling over that citrus dessert. As someone who is not a big fan of the usual sweet red bean soup that ends most banquet dinners, I would welcome that alternative any night.

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zerrin June 22, 2010 at 6:01 pm

You are so lucky to have these friends and such a family. And I think it’s great to return to your homeland. These dishes all look so appetizing, especially the dumplings.

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Elaine @ Om Sweet Om June 22, 2010 at 6:42 pm

It’s always nice to go back to your home country. I always get really excited when I go back to Taiwan.
WOW those plane foods look gorgeous and YUMMY! I’m also drooling over the Mapo Tofu and the braised chinese broccoli.

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Jackie (Peaces of Earth) June 22, 2010 at 9:10 pm

This looks amazing! You are very blessed. :) I also feel like the luckiest girl in the world when I’m around my wonderful, supportive family and friends.

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lequan@luvtoeat June 22, 2010 at 10:20 pm

I’m so happy for you that you are united with your patents and enjoying your time together with them eating glorious food. No matter how old I get, I will always love spending tine with my parents.

I so need to stop being so cheap and splurge on business class. Even though I’m short, it’d still be nice to be able to stretch my legs…sigh.

That noodle that you and your mom shared sounds delicious, and with abalone too…mmmm. Can’t wait to see the rest of your Korea trip as I’ve never been.

I feel like the luckiest person in the world when my kiddies are healthy and happy and I’m able to have a good dinner with my whole family.

Hope your mouth is feeling all better now by the way. Enjoy Korea Sophia!

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Averie (LoveVeggiesAndYoga) June 22, 2010 at 11:09 pm

Spoil me with a foot rub and a back rub. Omg I am a sucker for an amazing massage :)

Way to savor this amazing time in your life, Sophia!

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thenomadGourmand June 23, 2010 at 2:43 am

I’m hungryyyyy now… ;)

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Valerie June 24, 2010 at 4:56 am

I feel like the luckiest person in the world when I get a hug from the people I love. That just gets me all warm and snug inside. So glad that you have the chance to visit all your relatives. Praise God for saving you from ED and giving u life so abundant!

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OysterCulture June 24, 2010 at 5:28 am

What a treat to return with your family and maybe despite, or becasue of the resistance it was that much sweeter when you accepted the opportunity? Those food shots are amazing! I serious want to book a ticket so I can eat at that airport and on the plane =)

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Bekah June 25, 2010 at 11:41 am

This is so perfect! Guess what kitchen (class) I’m in right now?! Cuisines of Asia! And yesterday and today were spent entirely on Korean cuisine. It was quite tasty! I was on the dish Bulgogi. I think that’s the correct spelling, but as I’m learning (hooray!) there are many different spellings, mix up of letters, etc. It’s interesting to say the least. Love this post of yummy food and tribute to Korea. To many people’s surprise there is a big majority of the Asian race on campus that is Korean. All super nice people from my own experiences. Hope you are well Sophia and enjoying your summer and time away from school. :)

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