Yesterday, on Easter Sunday of 2010, my best friend got baptized.
She has been my best friend for 12 years.
I have been praying for her for 12 years.
And yesterday, half the world across, I rejoiced with her for her baptism: the celebration of entering the Kingdom of God.
Her name is Jing Wen, and we’ve been best friend ever since I met her in primary school in Singapore. I can’t tell you how overjoyed I am that she has been baptized, especially because it wasn’t easy leading her to the Lord. But as always, God has been faithful. As always, He proved to me how intricately, beautifully, and miraculously He will seek out those whom He loves.
A while ago, Jing Wen wrote a special post on her blog dedicated to me. As I read it, tears filled my eyes. I was touched not just by her gratefulness and appreciation for me, but also because I was absolutely humbled and awed by God’s grace. I knew, deep in my heart, that it was not my doing that led her to Christ. I was merely a messenger God used to convey His love for her.
I led her to accept Christ when we were about 12 years old. But even at that time, I myself weren’t entirely clear about what having a relationship with God meant. When I moved to America, we lost touch. Thus Jing Wen promptly forgot about God.
But God still kept sending random people to Jing Wen, gently coaxing her towards Him. He allowed hardships in her life, so that she will thirst and hunger for Him. Every step of the way, God was present and so very persistent in His wooing. All I did, was recognize God’s love for Jing Wen, and start earnestly praying for her, and reminding her of God.
When I went back to Singapore last winter, I was deathly ill. My trip to Singapore turned out to be a huge turning point in my ED recovery…but it also turned out to be a huge turning point in Jing Wen’s spiritual life as well. When I met her, she was extremely depressed and wandering in life. Well, so was I. What a pair we were! I was physically malnourished, she was spiritually malnourished, and we were both dealing with crushing insecurities and unhappiness.
But God’s work is so incredibly amazing and beautiful. He somehow used both of us to benefit one another. Jing Wen restored my ability to laugh and enjoy simple things in life like friendship. This played a big role in my recovery, because simply being in a better mood improved my motivation to recover. Meanwhile, I harnessed the power of my entire church to pray for her. Every week, I would ask my church to keep her in their prayers. And though they have never met her, they prayed for her fervently.
And ultimately, God answered our prayers. Jing Wen not only restored fellowship in church, but she started to actually enjoy it. She fell in love with the brothers and sisters in church, and has found a great source of support and comfort in them. Whenever she’s dealing with an issue, she knows who to turn to.
The more I think about it, the more overwhelmed I am by the power and grace of God. I am utterly grateful to Him, and shaken to tears by the way He ties and weaves these relationships together so that we affect each other in such poignant ways. Our God is truly wonderful!
This summer, Jing Wen and I have plans to tour Seoul together for 9 days. And by touring, I mean eating and shopping till we gain 15 lbs of weight and lose 15 lbs of $$…so it all evens out, right? Right.
That said, I need to start training myself to be able to survive food-wise in Korea. I have to admit, I’m not a fan of Korean food…which is why when you do see Korean food on my blog, they’ve been westernized. The last time I was in Korea, I had a majorly tough time adjusting to all the rice and tofu they served me. You see, I’m a traitor to Asians: I hate rice and tofu (Please do not report me to the AZN PRIDE Police).
But it’s time to adjust my taste buds so that I can still at least tolerate them. So I made the following dish with that in mind, by incorporating both tofu and rice.
Lime-Dill Tofu Steaks with Strawberry-Dill Salsa
- 1/2 block tofu
- 1/3 cup Kikkoman ponzu soy sauce (or equal parts soy sauce and rice vinegar)
- 1 bunch fresh dill, chopped
- juice of 1 small lime, fresh-squeezed
- 1 tablespoon honey
Strawberry-Dill Salsa:
- 1/2 cup chopped strawberries
- 1/4 red onion, diced
- 1 clove garlic, minced
- 1 bunch fresh dill, chopped
- juice of 1 small lime, fresh-squeezed
- 1 teaspoon honey
- 1-2 teaspoon balsamic vinegar
Others:
- 1 clove garlic, mined
- 1/3 cup button mushrooms, sliced
- 1 cup cooked rice
- handful feta cheese, crumbled
For the tofu, slice it into one inch thick slabs, and press the liquid out of it with clean towels. Next combine all ingredients except the tofu in a bowl and whisk. Add the tofu slabs in, marinate for about half an hour.
For the salsa, just mix everything together in a bowl and toss to coat. Set aside.
Then in a skillet, cook the garlic and mushrooms. Pour in the marinade from the tofu, and let the mushrooms absorb the flavors. Next, add the tofu and cook on both sides until done:
Arrange the tofu and mushrooms on top of cooked rice. Top with strawberry salsa, and sprinkle with feta cheese.
Now, why can’t all Korean food be as pretty? I’m a Korean so I can say this—Korean food aren’t exactly known for its exquisite and artistic presentation. It’s known more for it’s ability to satisfy and warm you up with its red spicy paste and hot steaming stews. If you get a bird’s eye view of a Korean dining table, you’ll notice that 80% of the food is red, with splotches of white for the rice.
This dish may also have a lot of redness, but it’s a fresh, popping kind of redness from the in-season strawberries. So pretty!
So I’m a total snob. I eat with my eyes first. But the taste was pretty good, too. I have to admit, I’m still not the biggest fan of rice and tofu…but this was very much edible. Rather tasty, in fact.
I loved the burst of lime in every mouthful, which balanced so well with the sweetness of the strawberries. The fresh seasonal dill also infused the dish with its distinctive fragrance.
Such an aromatic dish!
I’ll say one fact about tofu is that it is absolutely flavorless. That’s why you need to marinate the heck out of it, and this lime-dill marinade was awesome.
The rice was still blah. Well, rice will be..rice. Maybe I should have stir-fried it, but I didn’t want to overwhelm the dish with too many flavors. I guess I just really do not like rice. But if someone places it before me, I guess I will eat it.
Oh well, I still really enjoyed it! I’m a sucker for beautiful food and sweet and savory combinations.
I hope you all had an Easter as happy and joyful as mine, everybody! And rush to the markets…strawberry season is here! I got 3 cartons of strawberries for 88 cents each! I’m so happy to see these new seasonal fruits and produce emerging…and is it just me, or are the birds chirping more merrily than ever? Maybe it’s mating season? Well, I don’t have a mate, but I seem to be hum-humming along. I’m in such a joyous mood!
Question of the week: Do you have a close friend, with whom you keep close in touch, despite the distance? And for you Christians…do you have a testimony in which your prayer for a loved one’s salvation was answered? And…favorite way to enjoy strawberries?
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sophia…what a beautiful touching post. it is so wonderful the way the world works, pushing us without us knowing and guiding us to where we are supposed to be. congratulations to jing wen, and i can’t even imagine the fun you two are going to have tearing up korea!
i have a couple friends that go way back – no matter how much time passes between seeing them, it always feels like we saw each other just yesterday
Girl..you can really write. Every one of your posts shoots imagery throughout my cerebral cortex and conjures up feelings we all have at some point in our lives or daily. It really is a joy to read your entries and then see what yummy concoction you came up with. Love the strawberry-dill salsa..bookmarked among 1000′s of damn blog recipe bookmarks that are actually starting to take up space on my hard drive lol
Did I see strawberries & onions???
Taking creativity to the next level arent u?? Hehe.
Yup, long distance fren YOU! though we nvr met, I think ur great!
Will see u in Malacca (just 90mins drive la, no worries, and its an excuse to go eat! Hehe) and in Sg ok!
I love feta and fruit! Great combination!
Lovely post, Sophia!
I don’t think there’s any better way to enjoy strawberries than a strawberry shortcake. Old fashioned and delicious!
I was wondering what to do with the leftover tofu in my fridge — now I know!
Hi Sophia!
Your tofu meal looks amazing! I am def gonna try that!
Thanks!!
Where in the DC area are your from?? I live in DC between Georgetown and Dupont Circle.
I adore the colourful, healthy and beautiful dishes like THIS too!
HAHAHA! I love tofu and rice – I guess I’m a good lil’ Asian
But don’t worry, I won’t report you! Sophia, you are such a wonderful friend. Jing Wen is lucky to have you in her life, just as you are lucky to have her in yours. Your genuine happiness and joy for her is such a pleasure to read. You are a special person. I’m glad the two of you can reunite in Seoul this summer and eat and shop til you drop!
Love this recipe! I never would have thought strawberries and tofu would go together, but once again, you have proved me wrong! Simply a masterpiece!
Kudos to your friend!
Great combination of flavors Sophia; enjoyed the story about your friend too.
what a lovely post..so happy for your friend..she’s lucky to have you..love the addition of strawberries in the salsa
sweetlilfe
Sounds like quite the journey for the both of you… You’ve come such a long way together, it’s quite an amazing story to hear!!! And Korean food has more than just tou and rice!! Hehe, although i would gladly give up all the other stuff for a taste of your tofu n rice! And yaaaaay we will be in asia at ariund the same time!!! I’ll be in indonesia from may 10 to june 10 and will definitely be visiting singapore sometime then! Ooo it wld be sooooo great to see you again. I canNOT wait!!!
That is one vibrant, healthful looking dish! I feel more energetic just looking at it.
And how wonderful to have such a great friend all these years. That’s truly a relationship to cherish.
Favourite strawberry use = homemade strawberry jam! Or, failing that, just eating a container of them naked, by themselves. Boring but still delicious
On my blog, what I was talking about was a few times that I noticed people leaving comments telling others that they ate too much, or what they ate wasn’t ‘clean’ enough…I suppose I just got slightly annoyed that anyone thought they had the right to judge others and make them feel insecure about their eating habits.
Hope you’re having a lovely day
~Jess~
Mmm this Tofu looks amazing, I’ve never thought of combined mushrooms and strawberries in ANYTHING. However, I love both. Your plans to tour Seoul sound so exciting!! Hope you’re having a fantastic day pretty girl!
I prefer raspberries and blackberries to strawberries, but I like them frozen and then defrosted so they’re all juicy, with frozen yogurt, or I like them with plain yoghurt. My dad also eats with his eyes, and I love to make things pretty, long story short : I’m his favourite cook
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I remember praying for my sick aunt to not feel pain anymore and then she passed away. I know it sounds horrible but she want through so much pain and I feel like God knew she couldn’t get any better while still here on earth. I had grieved so much during her last few years, that while i was sad when she died I was also relieved that she wasn’t suffering anymore. That’s the only time I can think of….
On the friends thing? I keep in contact, but not that close. I find myself missing how they ‘used to be’. I suppose it’s because everyone I know has changed so much. Hell, even I have
Actually I used to like straberries with sugar. It reminds me of Wimbledon tennis tournament because when I went with my parents I bought them strawberries during one of the long matches and it meant to much to them. I also love taking photos of strawberries, and the way they smell….. Okay I’m weird.
Looks like you had fun
x
strawberries with balsamic vinegar are sooooo good! my dad brought that idea back from italy and i’ve been hooked ever since! i love your creation with strawberries and feta. saltly sweet..mmmm
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That was a beautiful post, Sophia.
I’m glad you and your friend were able to help each other through dark times.
How is it possible that you have made tofu look appealing? I like rice but I’m not really a tofu fan although I really want to be. Then again, I think that the main reason I don’t like it is because I don’t cook with it enough. Actually, I don’t cook with it at all.. so that’s probably my biggest problem.
I love the idea of strawberry dill salsa! Excellent dish!
This is the best best best best best best BEST NEWS, GIRL!!!! I’m so happy for your friend. I’m so glad you were there to help each other and so glad you brought another soul to God. What a day to rejoice!! But I have to tell you that I did report you to the AZN PRIDE police. You don’t like rice?! Isn’t that like a cardinal sin for an Asian girl?! What about brown rice? That actually has a nice nutty flavor–try it if you haven’t.
can I come over and have you cook tofu for me?! mmmmmmm.
and yes! I am totally Asian. I AM VERY PROUDLY AN EGG. My Asian friends always feel AT HOME when they come over too. it is hilar.
love you! hope school is going well Sophia!!!!!!!!!!!!
Both my fiance and I love white rice just plain! I’ve never eaten tofu… and about strawberries? I like them dipped in chocolate heh
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