How NOT to Start the Day as a Grouchy Bitch

March 2, 2010

in eating disorders,God,My story,product review,recipes

Sometimes, you just wake up on the wrong side of the bed. You know what I mean— you get up in the morning with a frown, every little thing seems to irritate you, and you continue on the rest of the day as a Grouchy Bitch.

The thing is, this bad morning mood kind of hangs onto you. It’s hard to shake off, especially because it is like a magnet that attracts more and more negativity. You’re like a small pile of turd—you stink, and all you attract are nasty flies. It doesn’t just affect you; it also affects everyone around you who has to bear with you, and it affects your overall productivity and health.

That’s why it’s just so important to start the day off right. You see, I noticed a pattern on my bad days, and it all starts from the day starting out wrong.

Typical Bad Day:

Wake up late —> Skip breakfast —> Rush to class —>  Flustered mood —> Tired, doze off in class —>Feeling unproductive –> Cranky and annoyed –>  Act like a bitch –> Shun social activities –> Lonely –> Unhappy :-(

Does that sound familiar to you? I’ve had one too many days like this, and it has  been really getting to me. It’s already the third month of 2010, and looking back to my New Year Prayer Topics, I’ve realized that I still have yet to actually work on some of my goals. I’ve been procrastinating on getting serious with them, and it’s only gotten harder and harder to start on them as time passes by and things get busier.

I’ve been reading up on new March goals on a lot of your blogs and it’s given me the motivation and inspiration to restart and work harder on my New Year prayer topics. And you know what? Instead of viewing them as a year’s goal, I’m going to crunch them down into a daily goal, and face them day by day so that I no longer have the excuse of “oh, I have a whole year to fulfill them!” And that day starts now, today.

So this is what I hope the start to my Typical Good Day will be like:

Wake up early –> Run –> Pray, listen to praise music, read the bible –> Breakfast –> Classes, rest of the day –> happy! :-)

Today was Day#1, and I feel freaking wonderful. Thankfully my roommate was out, because I was singing along to praise songs, dancing to and fro as I cooked breakfast. And I did not doze off during classes at all! I feel surprisingly energetic, and I just feel…so alive and peaceful. I feel empowered by God’s word and spirits, and I can’t help humming as I walk across the school campus.

Another thing I realized: feed my spiritual body first. The truth is that I put so much attention on what I feed my physical body, but I’ve been neglecting consistently nourishing my spiritual body. Without a healthy, well-fed spiritual body, I become nothing but flesh—susceptible to physical weaknesses and worldly temptations. I’ve once again realized the importance of feeding both my physical and spiritual bodies, and how intricately they are connected and affect one another.

I know that not all of you share the same faith as I do, but I’m sure most of you will agree that we humans are not just a physical shell. We are more than just blood and flesh; we have spirits, and that spirits require daily food, too. For me, that spiritual food is God’s words. It’s more than historical text—it’s living and breathing, and it replenishes me with fresh power and faith each time I “eat” it.

As for physical food, I know for sure that all of you agree that it’s critical! Whether you live to eat or eat to live, food ties so much to our daily moods too. And in the same way, what you eat to start the day probably matters too. So let me suggest to you an example of a great meal to start your day…

Hash! Ah, is there anything more grubby and stick-to-your-ribs than good ol’ hash? The best thing about hashes is that they can easily be made with any leftovers you have, and it can be as simple or as lavish as you want it to be. My hash was actually inspired by this Tropical Traditions product that I won from Mara’s giveaway:

IMG_2858 Coconut Peanut Butter! Oh this product is absolutely lovely! It is made from just two ingredients: organic Valencia peanuts and organic coconut. Nothing else!
IMG_2859It’s kind of runny, but I like that because it isn’t so dry like regular peanut butter. It’s not overwhelmingly coconutty, but enough to give it an exotic twist. As Mara said, it’s just screaming to be put into brownies or noodles. But obviously, I had to go the more untraditional route. So how does this product make into a hash? Well, all you need is a bit of imagination…

Especially because I hope that you participate in this week’s BSI (Bloggers Secret Ingredient)! Tara from Fun Fearless Foodie has asked me to host this week’s BSI again, and since the winter is clearing away for spring, I wanna hurry up and take advantage of the last of winter’s produce…BRUSSEL SPROUTS!!!
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Please check out this page for previous BSI challenges and guidelines. And here’s just one idea on how to use brussel sprouts:

Coco-NUT-ty Sweet Potato & Brussel Sprouts Hash

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  • 1/2 cup Coconut PB cottage cheese blend (recipe to follow)
  • 1 cup brussel sprouts, quartered
  • 1 large sweet potato, cubed
  • olive oil
  • 2 cloves garlic
  • 1/2 large onion, diced
  • 2-3 mushrooms, chopped
  • salt and black pepper
  • balsamic vinegar
  • handful dried berries (or raisins, or craisins)
  • 1 large egg
  • handful cheddar cheese

Coconut PB cottage cheese blend:

  • 1 part dijon mustard
  • 1 part honey
  • 1 part apple cider vinegar
  • 1 part Tropical Traditions Coconut Peanut Butter
  • 2 parts cottage cheese

First you gotta make the CocoNUTty part of this dish. Just blend all the ingredients for the coconut PB cottage cheese blend together. I just gave ratios so you can make as little or as much as you want. I made a big batch, and stored it in an empty salsa jar:

IMG_2870 Rich, luscious, creamy, sweet and savory. Almost pudding-y! SO good!
IMG_2871 Now, I did not have any leftover brussel sprouts and sweet potato (are you kidding me? I always finish them off), so I had start with fresh ingredients. I put a pot to boil and then threw the sweet potato cubes in there, and boiled it for about 4 minutes. Then I threw the brussel sprouts in and cooked it all for another 1-2 minutes. Drain, and set aside.

Next, heat oil in a large skillet. Cook the garlic, onions, and mushrooms together. Season lightly with salt and pepper. Increase the heat to high. Toss in the brussel sprouts and sweet potato and dried berries with a splash of balsamic vinegar, and cook over high heat.
IMG_2873 In the meantime, in another skillet, fry up an egg to your desired doneness. When the brussel sprouts and sweet potato have a bit of sear to them, turn off the heat. Stir in a few dollops of the coconut PB cottage cheese blend; stir to coat.

Ladle the hash onto a serving dish. Top with runny egg, sprinkle with cheese, and drizzle more of that coconut PB blend on top.  
IMG_2874 Okay. Imagine me presenting you with this dish in the morning. Is that enough to make you burst out into a song, or what?
IMG_2884 Let me count the ways why this dish is perfect to start your day: First, a runny egg.
IMG_2879  Second, that creamy, exotic, incredible coconutty sauce.
IMG_2877 Third, sweet potatoes and brussel sprouts (BSI ingredient!), cooked up nice and crispy.
IMG_2882 Fourth, the melted, gooey cheese.
IMG_2883 Fifth, it’s well-balanced, and freaking nutritious.
IMG_2881And finally, it’s a Sophia creation! What’s not to love? ;-)
IMG_2878 Do you have a goofy grin on your face already? Because I sure do!

Another reason I have a goofy grin on my face, is because my hair is finally long enough for me to tie it back!!! AAAAAHHH!!!
IMG_2861 For those of you who haven’t been with me long enough, you should know that I lost 70% of my hair because of my eating disorder, and the ones that were left looked like it’d been deep-fried…yeah, a side effect that nobody really warns you about diets until you start pulling out clumps and clumps of hair in the shower. Well, ever since I’ve started getting enough calories in, my hair has been steadily growing out, and they’re thick and healthy, not thin and fraggled! I still remember it was only almost exactly one year ago that I first discovered my new hair starting to grow out!
IMG_2863 So it’s true. The best beauty you can possibly be is to be healthy. And I want to emphasize that previous to this, I was eating “healthy”. I refused white carbs, sugar, etc. I was obsessed about getting enough protein, fruits, vegetables, blah blah blah. But it was only when I got enough calories in, that my body started to regulate itself. The proof is in the hair, my friends.

Okay, enough hairy talk. I wanna hear from you! Tell me, dear readers, how do you start the day out right?

And this week’s BSI ingredient is BRUSSEL SPROUTS…Please enter! Or my lovely hash will be lonely! Email me your submission by Sunday, March 7th…which happens to be on the same day as the submission deadline for the “You Are What You Cook” Challenge! Wow! That is a lot of exclamation marks and bold words! Okay, I’ll stop, I’m being annoying. ;-) Just remember to check out this page for BSI guidelines!

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Betherann March 2, 2010 at 11:43 pm

You rock. Have I told you that lately? ‘Cause it’s true. :)

For a long, looong time my first activity of the day (after peeing) would be to work out. This summer, I decided that needed to change. Like you said, God needs to come first. I read somewhere a really wonderful quote about how what we do in our day’s first 20 minutes dictates our priorities/flow for the rest of that day. So I started putting God time first. It’s been challenging, because I don’t always get a workout in before work, which I find stressful, but it’s been totally worth it. I say that God is #1, but I wasn’t living that out, in faith and trust, until I literally put Him first on my schedule. I can’t claim that it’s a perfect system and that I’ve turned into the newest Mother Theresa, but it’s helped me. I think it’ll be amazing for you!

Enjoy your sweet treat today!

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Julia March 3, 2010 at 12:44 am

Girl! I’m so happy because of your hair! So wonderful for you and I’m so glad to see this!!! YEAH!

And you’re so right about mornings. Otherwise we create that self fulfilling- prophecy…

Have a great day with your beautiful hair:)

xxx Julia (Taste of Living)

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Katie March 3, 2010 at 3:12 am

Sophia you are so beautiful!! yay for your hair getting long again, Im sorry you had to go through that horrible road in your life, Im so glad you are better!!!

I just have to say I licked the computer screen when I saw that coconut PB pic : p Mmmmmmmmmmmmmmmm!! It looks so good and what looks even more good is what you did with it!! Yum!! THe meal looks so good!!! I will give you ginger chews if you cook me that!! HA!!!

Love ya girl!!!!!

Have a great hump day!!! xoxo

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ellie March 3, 2010 at 3:49 am

Being rushed in the morning sets me up to be in a bad mood alllllllll day. I need time to relax over coffee and breakfast, jam to some tunes (GLEE!) and get my thoughts in a good place. Then I can take on the WORLD!

I want that peanut butter! YUM! I like runny nut butters because they are so easy to mix into cereal/yogurt.

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Lorraine @ Not Quite Nigella March 3, 2010 at 4:55 am

Oooh did you say coconut peanut butter? Be still my beating heart! I think I could even make it if I tried. Amazing! :D

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The Candid RD March 3, 2010 at 5:00 am

If I don’t start my day off on the right food, everything goes down hill. It sucks!! The other day I woke up 40 minutes late and had to make it to my dentist appointment in 15 minutes. I HATE being late!! IT’s my least favorite thing in the world. I frantically got read and hopped in the car to drive the 20 minutes…ended up GETTING LOST, and calling my dad….I was about 20 minutes late and it threw me off for the whole day, ARGGGHH.

So the BSI is brussel sprouts?! This dish looks AMAZING, and I MUST try that coconut PB cottage cheese. You are so damn creative. How did you get so creative?! I love it. That coconut PB also sounds really tasty. I’ll have to keep my eyes peeled for that. Thanks for sharing your decadent recipe with us!

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Tina March 3, 2010 at 5:05 am

I have to start my day off with prayer too if I want to have a good day. And I’m so glad you have signs of health coming back. That is wonderful and I bet it makes you feel great :)

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Barbara March 3, 2010 at 5:09 am

Sophie!
I LOVE THE PICTURES OF YOU! You are beautiful!! I also love brussel sprouts and coconut+peanut butter is HEAVEN. So this post was a total win-win! Best candy EVER has got to be Atkinson’s Chick-o-stick’s and peanut butter bars. I just discovered chickosticks about 7months ago. How I survived all this time without them…I will never know! ha ha
Good luck with you goals, and congrats about the hair!!!! BEAUTIFUL
Love, Barbara

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Christina March 3, 2010 at 5:10 am

Wow, you really love those runny eggs LOL. That PB sounds absolutely amazing. And it sound so easy to make. I wonder why more companies don’t sell coconut peanut butter!

Yay for long hair! You look great :)

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Gera @ SweetsFoodsBlog March 3, 2010 at 5:40 am

So true the diagram to end the day unhappy! And the good one for being happy – in this one, I want to add a dessert to improve it :)

Have a great week,
Gera

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tasteofbeirut March 3, 2010 at 5:40 am

A very interesting product Sophia; but most of all I enjoyed reading your story and love that you are always taking steps to self-correct whatever you feel is not working right in your life, congratulations!

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Heather (Where's the Beach) March 3, 2010 at 5:48 am

YAY on the hair!!! It’s so true that just one slip up in the morning can cause a downhill slide.

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Andrea @ CanYouStayForDinner.com March 3, 2010 at 6:05 am

Oh my goodness your brussels sprout/sweet potato meal is unbelievable!! It looks delicious, I’m going to have to make it!Thanks for the idea!!
I agree with you about starting the morning with exercise and a good breakfast- a surefire way to have a good day!
Have a great Wednesday!

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Sophie @ yumventures March 3, 2010 at 6:06 am

What a great dish! I love the brussel sprouts in it — I LOVE THEM! — and it reminds me of an English dish Bubble and Squeak, which is leftovers in a frying pan, like potatoes and brussel sprouts! I am glad to hear you had such a wonderful day! I hate rushing in the morning, and if I have to I know it won’t be a good day. The title of this post made me laugh, out loud!

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brandi March 3, 2010 at 6:41 am

yay for long hair!

and I’m pretty sure you described my day yesterday ;| It was such a bad day! But today is a new day :)

brussel sprouts…I’ll get my thinking cap on :)

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Melinda March 3, 2010 at 6:49 am

I think you have outdone yourself. I love this hash, it looks so pretty. I just tried brussels sprouts for the first time last week and I really like them. Maybe I should buy some and try to make something out of it. I know it will never look as good as your dish. You are awesome.

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Sarah March 3, 2010 at 6:59 am

I am drooling over the food pictures. I love the sprout and so does my entire family but you reinvented them :)

You are such a beautiful person. I love that you are feeling good about you!

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Vanilla Swirl March 3, 2010 at 7:04 am

HI!!

Aaa you’re so cute with a little ponytail <3

Unfortunately I hate liquidy egg yolk and brussel sprouts (bad IP memories)…but your pictures almost make me want to eat them ;P

I need to get my hand on the coconut pb. Or else I'll have to create it myself, which might turn into a disaster lol :)

xoxo

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Diana @ frontyardfoodie March 3, 2010 at 7:14 am

Haha, it’s like this post was written to me. I’ve been insanely busy at work and all sick from being pregnant and after a couple weeks of having those sort of days where I get to work later than I like, I’m grumpy, I don’t eat breakfast I finally had enough. This morning I got up with the hubby, made breakfast, left on time and I’m so energetic and happy! I love how you listen to praise music in the morning. I think that would really help me too so I’ll be starting that soon!

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Kathleen March 3, 2010 at 7:34 am

Your BAD day sounds EXACTLY like mine. However, basically, taking out time for yourself makes it SO much better. And good food :)

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Karin March 3, 2010 at 7:52 am

Awww you’re SO adorable Sophia! Not only because you have the cutest face ever but that title put a huge grin on my face. Oh yes, days like these.. We’ve seen them all though skipping breakfast never happens to me. ;)
Your meal looks SO GOOD! I would totally dig in if I wouldn’t hate brussels that much :) .

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blueeyedheart March 3, 2010 at 8:37 am

Hmmm… I think I must be a Grouchy Bitch by default! Oh dear.

I love long hair… when I was a kid I had short hair, and it was a disaster. I can feel your joy. ;)

<3 <3

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Stephanie March 3, 2010 at 9:09 am

Your title made me laugh out loud. Laughter is a great way to start the day–thank you for that! I love that you realize the links that perpetuate your bad mood. I’m trying to me more mindful, too. It’s wonderful news about your hair–what progress!

Your hash recipe looks delicious. I went through a sweet potato hash phase last year and I think it may be time to revisit it and use your recipe. Everything’s better with a runny egg! Have a GREAT day!

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MelissaNibbles March 3, 2010 at 9:25 am

Daily bubble baths also help one not to be a bitch :)

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Light Delight with TouTou March 3, 2010 at 10:40 am

Ah. This is my day. today. So bad I wake up late, and I feel unproductive in the morning , because nothing comes out after working on my code intensively for 4 hours!! Grrr….
you are right. I should make adjustment to my daily schedule, wake up early and get the routine things done (such as exercising), will make me less anxious! I will work on this tomorrow!!

the Coconut PB cottage cheese blend looks so creamy!! I love the texture and probably can’t help to eat the whole jar! I can tell how good it tastes:)

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Michelle March 3, 2010 at 10:44 am

This is SUCH an excellent post Sophia. I’m SO happy that your hair is so luscious. I was going to say that those bangs are really sexy…hehehhe SERIOUSLY steamy stuff.

You are going to be such a successful writer!!! I enjoy all your pieces, and yes I agree with you 100%. Once stuck in a bad mood funk, it’s there for a LOOONG time. Your morning ritual sounds like an excellent example for us all!!

I just WISH i could taste your creation….it just…i almost want to cry because i wanna eat it so bad and Can’t!! Such a tease…:(

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Simply Life March 3, 2010 at 11:25 am

YUM! What a fun mix of ingredients!

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BakeMe March 3, 2010 at 1:07 pm

Sophia: you look A-MAZING! Let’s run together some time yeah?

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Jessica March 3, 2010 at 1:10 pm

Ooh I have too many of your “bad days” or maybe I wa born moody ;-) !!! I love your morning happy habit thing! Will definitely have to try it sometime! :-)
Your food looks really yummy and nutricious – more could anyone want?? I adore brussel sprouts!!! xxx

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Shannon March 3, 2010 at 1:12 pm

coconut pb? seriously need some of that stuff! and that dish would get me to sing, too :) looks like we were on the same wavelength with sw pot & brussels! didn’t know about the bsi when i posted, can it still count??

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Emily (A Nutritionist Eats) March 3, 2010 at 1:46 pm

Are you kidding with that hash? It is basically all of my favorite foods!

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Allison (Eat Clean Live Green) March 3, 2010 at 2:05 pm

That sounds amazing – and I don’t think I’ve ever said that about brussel sprouts before! ;-)

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teresa March 3, 2010 at 2:40 pm

you’re so cute! love the hair, great job! i’m with you, i need to get up at a decent hour and get some exercise in my day. it makes all the difference! GREAT recipe!

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Anais March 3, 2010 at 2:57 pm

LOL I’m so glad to see a beautiful poached egg :)

I definitely have some of those days… Although for me it’s mostly at night because that’s when I get SUPER tired!!! :)

About the recipe… I don’t know what to make!!!! And I feel like I don’t want to make something mediocre :( I’m feeling uninspired, but hopefully I’ll have something by Sunday :)

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daintyvegan March 3, 2010 at 3:13 pm

I start the day off with a run. Long, short, sprints, interspersed with walking – it doesn’t matter. A run makes the whole day better, even if I wake up grumpy. :)

Your hair does look nice and healthy! Mine is a bit fried from dying it so I’ve decided to just let my natural color come through.

I’m still brainstorming for my creation.. it’s coming slowly. Guess I had better hurry it up though. :o

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BroccoliHut March 3, 2010 at 3:20 pm

Today is now a good day because of this post–all my favorites in one glorious dish: coconut, PB, sprouts, AND sweet potatoes. Heavenly.
I can definitely relate to your hair victory! I remember one day, long after my recovery process began, a stranger told me I had nice hair. It was one of the nicest compliments I ever received:)

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Andrea@CeleryITC March 3, 2010 at 4:05 pm

love the faces you are making in your pictures. I am happy to hear that you’re so much healthier, both in body and in spirit. It’s very inspirational.

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Jessie March 3, 2010 at 6:50 pm

Haha, your post title definitely got my attention! I’ve been very lax about feeling my own spiritual body lately – I used to start the day with yoga to clear the mind, but I haven’t done that in about … a year? Yeah.

Love your hair :)

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Brittany March 3, 2010 at 6:56 pm

I love starting my day with a workout (yoga, running, spinning, etc.), a big breakfast, and a nice little walk to work. That puts me in the best mood!!

Your Coco-NUT-ty Sweet Potato & Brussel Sprouts Hash is calling my name like no other. It looks spectacular!!! Seriously, I would be one happy girl if you presented that dish to me, morning, day, or night. :)

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Stella March 3, 2010 at 6:59 pm

This post is hilarious and so true! Congratulations on your double win-coconut deliciousness and new kitchen ware.

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Cassandra March 3, 2010 at 7:33 pm

Coconut Peanut Butter!!!!!!!!!!! I wanted to try coconut butter but now… I want to try that too!!!!!!!! yummies!!!!!!!! Congrats on your Resolutions!! so hard to keep but makes you feel good trying to achieve them :)
have a good night :)

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Lee March 3, 2010 at 7:56 pm

I find that it makes such a difference if I get a good night’s sleep the night before.

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Christine (The Raw Project) March 3, 2010 at 8:49 pm

Agreed on starting the day right, breakfast and enough time to prepare for the day is crucial to me. I have not mastered working out in the morning, I’d love to, but have to leave for work too early.

Wow, that peanut butter looks amazing and you’ve got me thinking about creating an almond version …. hmmmmm :-) And amazing food pics!

Congrats on your hair, my ED wrecked havoc on mine too that took over a year to restore. Great blog.

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lynn @ the actors diet March 3, 2010 at 10:21 pm

congrats on your hair growing back – how symbolic!!!

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thenomadGourmand March 4, 2010 at 2:31 am

perfect start to my mornings? A run! cool fresh crisp breeze on my face as I work those legs!

Then a shower.. then cloths that fits snugly and me lookin good be4 i step out. Oh yea!

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Tiffany @ A Dantat's Life March 4, 2010 at 4:46 am

hah. ha. haha. ha. hahaha. coconut. peanut butter. hah. *dies*
and i totally agree that the things you do to start the day set the tone for the rest of the day. brussel sprouts are awesome and are a great BSI ingredient!

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Tatianna March 4, 2010 at 11:02 am

Look at you with your beautiful and healthy hair! You look amazing :)
I really like this post – sometime’s it’s great to be reminded that life is what you make it. We all have the ability to make each day a positive one, and I am definitely in need of work in this area!
xox
Tat

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Holly March 4, 2010 at 12:01 pm

first off, that is SO exciting about your hair! that is such an accomplishment and something to be celebrated my dear!

second, that HASH! ahhhh…and that peanut butter! and that runny egg! you just put a bunch of my favorite things together in one and i am drooling it looks so good.

lastly, i COMPLETELY agree about feeding your spiritual soul. it is way to easy to keep yourself in that funk of crabbiness, and quite honestly, takes much more to get yourself out. taking time for ourselves is so key, and we cannot forget that!

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Nicole March 4, 2010 at 2:29 pm

That is definitely a Sophia creation! I love it! Brussels sprouts are one of my favorite vegetables. Your dish looks amazing! I like how you mixed together the sprouts with sweet ingredients like dried cranberries and sweet potatoes, and of course the coconut PB – genius! And of course the gooey egg and cheese makes it oh-so much better! Your hair looks amazing! I love the side swept bangs; they are very chic! And, you look so healthy. I’m glad you are well and loving life!

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Maurie Kirschner March 5, 2010 at 7:39 pm

That dish looks and sounds soooooo delicious! Yumm!

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