A lot of people get surprised when they find out I skip classes.
But my classmates are used to the skinny Asian girl who sits in the front of class either drooling or doodling. In my grade reports, every teacher marked down with exasperated exclamation points, “This girl is always building castles in the air!” I used to have a Spanish teacher who hated my guts because I slept every minute of her class. And I always finish my homework during classes so that I didn’t have to do them back at home. You all remember my 7pm rule? It’s not so much a wise strategy as it is just an excuse to slack off some more.
I have to admit, I used to have tons of fun seeing my teachers pinched expressions and exasperation. I was sloppy with my work attitude, but I still somehow managed to get good grades, so I really did not give a damn.
Until I realized how much that sloppy attitude is costing me.
Let me just name a few recent or major ones:
- I scratched up my car really badly against the parking wall because I didn’t care to look properly.
- I crushed the back of my car for the same reason.
- Look above, re-read two times. Yes, 6 times total, until the final accident (which was, of course, totally my fault again)
- I messed up on the date for my parents’ plane flight to Los Angeles, at a loss of $800.
- I messed up again on the date, this time for a bus trip.
- I didn’t read the directions to my mid-term, and wrote about two films instead of three.
- I didn’t read the directions to my essay prompt, and wrote about my own topic.
- I didn’t check up on school email account, even though I knew something was wrong with it, and missed several important information from my professors
Ouch. I think I’ve had enough, don’t you? It’s hard, to shake off this sloppy attitude which I’ve been wearing for so many years. But the price to pay is too much, too painful. I’ve lost and wasted too much money, time, and grades.
Urgh. It seems like I’m always bordering in the extremity. During my ED days, I’m obsessing over the smallest details in my calorie intake and meals. Now, I’ve lost that perfectionist behavior, but I seem to have reverted back to my sloppy, half-assed ways. How do I find that balance? I’m still working on it, but I’ll let you know.
So. To reflect on my sloppy attitude, let me present to you a sloppy dish. Nope, not sloppy joes. That would be unoriginal!
Korean BBQ Chickpea Gratin
- 1 tsp olive oil
- 2 cloves garlic, minced
- 1/2 large onion, diced
- 4 oz ground turkey
- 1/2 zucchini, diced
- 1/2 eggplant, diced
- 1/4 red bell pepper, diced
- 1 cup chickpeas, cooked (I stole this from the school dining hall)
- Korean BBQ marinade
- 2-3 basil leaves, shredded
- 1 medium gold potato
- 1 medium sweet potato
- 1/4 cup sharp cheddar cheese
- 1/4 cup Parmesan cheese
- fresh black pepper
Fry up the garlic and onion in oil until fragrant, then toss in the ground turkey and all the vegetables. Cook until softened, and then add in the chickpeas and Korean BBQ marinade:
Once heated through, pour the vegetable mixture into a baking dish. Top with basil leaves:
Slice the potato and sweet potato into about 1/4-inch slices:
Place it in overlapping patterns over the baking dish and sprinkle with cheese and cracked black pepper:
Cook in a 400 degree oven until done:
You can definitely guess my reaction to this toasty cheesy dish as I pulled it out of the oven!
How can you say no to toasted cheeeeeese?!
Slop it up onto a dish:
No matter how you look at it, it definitely looks sloppy…
But oh-so-delicious! I swear, that Korean BBQ marinade is the bomb, and it will make even my running shoes taste delicious. It’s best with meat, of course, but plenty tasty with vegetarian options like this one!
But I have to say, the best part was the crispy texture of the 2-potato crust…So crunchy, so cheesy!
Obviously this little dish is just for show, because right after I finished this portion, I finished up the rest by the baking dish:
Yum.
Too bad my sloppiness doesn’t produce such delicious results!
By the way, I’ll be gone this weekend…To SAN FRANCISCO! I’ll be hitching at Maggie from Say Yes to Salad’s place together with Coco from Balance, Joy and Delicias for the Foodbuzz Festival….AHH! So excited!! I can’t believe I’m finally meeting so many amazing bloggers!!! >.<
But not to worry (Ok, I’m the only one worrying)…Mimi will be doing a guest post, so please check back in the weekend for that!
Question of the day: So, what kind of work ethic do you have? Are you a diligent bee? Or a sloppy dreamer like me?
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Wow! I’ve never seen tis dish before! Looks good! Also I think we’ve all slacked at some point, don’t know why teachers made it such a big deal!
I am definitely sloppy, so how I produced a Type A neat freak of a daughter, I’ll never know!
Love that dish! You had me at cheese and potatoes!
Have fun this weekend – can’t wait for the recap!
That’s a seriously delicious looking meal. I’m halfway between sloppy and perfectionist. I never skipped class but my room and car have been badly in need of a cleaning
I’m having a particularly unorganized week this week, very sloppy and forgetful about things. Glad it’s Friday! Have a fun time at Foodbuzz festival!
I didn’t know you were going to the Food Buzz Festival?! You lucky duck!!
I NEVER made such a deluxe meal like that in college!! It looks amazing! Take tons of pictures this weekend!
Hmm I`m a bit of an inbetweener, usually I am pretty careful checking things and at school I tried my best to do things well but there were times I just couldnt be bothered and did cut corners!
Yum is all I can say for your dish, oh how I wish I could cook like you!
Have fun in SF, xoxo
Being sloppy in college can cost you a lot more than being sloppy in high school. Generally, professors mean business, not to mention that blatantly disregarding them (doing homework in class, if they can see you) kind of seems like a slap in the face. (They’ve devoted their lives to these subjects, they least you can do is pay attention.)
Sorry to be frank, but if I catch a student disrespecting me in my class next year, heads will roll.
oh i’m definitely a sloppy dreamer. every once and a while i can pull my act together, but for the most part, i’m all over the place! i say there’s pros and cons to being either.
the dish looks wonderful! i love that sweet potato crust!
Have so much fun this weekend! It sounds like an absolute blast :O)
- Beth @ http://www.DiningAndDishing.com
If I’m in a perfectionist moood, I tend to try and be super organized with everything in my life, from washing my face at night, to planning my outfit and meals ahead of time, and doing well in school.
When I’m a lazy ass. I’m a lazy ass to the extremeee. Balance is a toughie.
But this meal looks gorgeous! And so yummy too, I bet.
I wouldn’t say I’m sloppy, maybe more “negligent.” And it’s not that I purposely ignore things, it’s just that what should be important, usually isn’t at the forefront of my mind. Even little things like not noticing I dropped something on the floor, and walking past it a bazillion times without ever picking it up. Hm. Maybe I’m just preoccupied!
Oh, ramblings aside, that dish is the BOMB. I wonder if I could track down some Korean BBQ sauce…
I try to be a good mixture of conscientious and carefree so that I don’t end up driving myself crazy, nor do I end up screwing myself over. It’s a fine balance…
This dish looks SO GOOD. I mean, anything topped with sweet potatoes and then cheese has to be a winner. It’s kind of like a fusion version of a shepherd’s pie. Awesome!!
BBQ, potatoes, & cheese! Sloppy or not, that’s a fabulous combo! I hope you have a great time in San Fran!
Ahh…it’s so nice to see someone else who is not a perfectionist. Way to go!
I’m a diligent bee but trust me, I WISH I could sleep in class sometimes. Ha, on days you don’t do anything nothing would be better than catching some zzz’s but I can never fall asleep.
Girly if being sloppy makes you create these wonderful dishes….Don’t Quit!
The sweet pea gratin looks absoluteley divine! Have loads of fun in SF! And tell us all about it! I am somewhere in between the two!
have fun at foodbuzz!!!!
Ooh, sorry.
That sounds rough! I am most definitely a diligent bee. Always have been. But it got to an extreme point of perfectionism during my ED days… Perfectionism seems to be a key trait of ED, no matter what you were like before. In my case, it just got REALLY strong. Sniff. Bad, bad memories.
What an awesome gratin -yum!! I hope you have a great time in SF!
I’m pretty organized, but I definitely daydream when I’m driving sometimes, and end up getting lost.
i’m a goody-two-shoes all the way.
have fun this weekend!
That dish looks so delicious!! Everytime I scroll down I find a photo more tasty-looking than the last!
Your “mess ups” so remind me of my daughter! LOL! Now I luv you more.
I try to be diligent at work, but I get distracted sometimes. LOL. Anyway, I hope I can be diligent when it comes to recovery work. You make sloppy food look smashingly delicious. Hehe…
that sucks about the $800!! however your sloppy meal looks like a winner to me girlie
Oh dear, sounds like a lot of stuff was sloppy lately–but at least you recognize it! Some people are so ignorant to their own sloppy ways!!
So envious of you going to Foodbuzz–lucky gal!
This looks scrumptious!! Lots of creamy, veggie goodness.
have fun!!! i wanna see some pics of this festival
Great Gratin!! Looks yummy
I’ll tell ya… finding a balance is all of what life’s about. Probably for now, the sloppiness is better than perfectionism, but maybe it’s time to re-read or get more sleep?
Oh my goodness, veggies, squash, cheese, and chickpeas??? YUM! Why are you such a food genius, Sophia?!
I think I’m naturally a sloppy person, but became careful throughout life. I check to see I got my homework in my backpack over and over again, make sure that I don’t run into anything while driving, check the time to make sure I’m never late, and I recheck my answers on test countlessly. Maybe I should be a little more flexible?
I hope you have fun at the Foodbuzz thing! Sounds like you are having fun so far (from other blogs
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Eeep, I’m ashamed to say I as well struggle with following directions and managing good work habits! I find it’s always good to reread things and write them down (ha, in my case, even if it has come down to write on my arm xD).
You make such interesting meals! I love it!
You can keep building castles in the air all you want as far as I’m concerned if you keep coming up with such yummy creative recipes.
Have fun with the other lovely bloggers at Foodbuzz–how exciting!!!
Great meal! Love the ooey cheese
<3 jess
xoxo
So jealous of you being at Foodbuzz!
I have a pretty good work ethic, but the minute you started describing yourself, I thought of my brother. He was similar in high school – daydreamin’ and sleepin’ but getting good grades so he could have cared less!
Your post made me smile – and laugh. I’m a bit of an extremist. It’s either one way or completely the other. So I can relate to what you’re saying!
I don’t really know, I was a goody two shoes (conscientious?) and teachers pet from kindergarten on so
That dish looks yummy! I love potatoes and cheese!
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