If you’ve been following me on Twitter…you might have guessed that I’ve been a teensy weensy bit stressed lately. I’ve been having a lot of work piled up lately.
Because the books I ordered came in late, I’ve been on a mad-hatter rush to catch up with all my missed readings. Meanwhile, I’ve been hit with a serious case of writer’s block for my essay on Evolution, especially because I’m finding it hard to support my theory without sounding like a close-minded religious fanatic. Add to that the fact that it is the long weekend and all my required interviewees for a school newspaper article due Tuesday morning are out of office, and the fact that coffee does not work for me anymore, it’s no wonder I became one pent-up ball of frustrated stress-cords.
At times like this when I’m having trouble calming down and communicating with God, I do what every girl in my situation would do. Go cry “boo hoo” and freak out at my daddy.
I sent him an email full of exclamation points and expletives. Don’t worry, my dad is cool with expletives because I am very creative with them and he doesn’t know enough English to figure out that they are bad swearing words.
Anyway. My dad has always been the best person to turn to in a situation like this, and he didn’t fail me again. He immediately responded with an email full of broken English, but I got the jest of what he was trying to tell me. Here’s what he said (except I polished up all his weird grammatical errors):
“Dear daughter,
‘Who are you?’ is always more important than ‘What are you doing?’. Don’t live for the sake of doing something, but live for the sake of enjoying a truly meaningful life!
No matter what you are going to do, always remember to pay attention to ‘How is my spiritual, emotional and physical condition? What kind of condition am I in, as I do what I am doing right now?’
An hour’s work in good condition is far better than ten hours’ work in bad condition; and an hour’s pleasant work, in which you are enjoying what you are doing moment by moment, is much better than ten hours’ forced work of stressed yawns!”
My dad hits the nail in the head once again. Why am I making myself more stressed than I need be? Forcing myself to do work under stress is not going to get me anywhere.
Yesterday I took the day off and just let myself…relax. I went to church, I hung out with awesome friends, and I had the most fabulous meal ever with them (which I will blog about soon later). And when I came home, my mind, spirit and body was refreshed, clear as mountain spring water.
And you know what? I sat down in front of my laptop, and I started cranking out my essay again, but this time…I enjoyed what I was doing. And ho, ho, ho! Guess what?! I finished my essay! Woo-hoo!
Never underestimate the power of the mind. When you set your heart to actually enjoy what you are doing instead of merely enduring it, you’ll be pleasantly surprised and how much more effective and efficient you can be.
Maybe that’s why I make good food (in my opinion). Because I enjoy cooking, the passion and delight in me transfers to my food. Today, Mimi joined me for a Korean-Mexican throw-down against Calbi BBQ. And boy, did we ever kick their ass!
We came up with two ideas: A nori taquito, and a Spicy Chicken and Guacamole Tostada. Hang on to your seats, because you’re in for an amazing foodie ride across the continents for the combination of two crazy-delicious cuisines!
Challenge #1: Nori Taquito (inspired by Mimi)
- 2 sheets nori (unsalted)
- 4 slices bacon
- 1/2 cup chopped kimchi
- 1/2 cup sharp cheddar cheese
- 1/4 cup diced scallions
Start frying up the bacon until nice and crispy, then toss in the chopped kimchi and fry them up together until the bacon absorbs all the juices from the kimchi and the kimchi gets nice and hot.
Next, lay out the nori and ladle the kimchi-bacon mixture on to the edge of it. Lay on the cheese and scallions, roll the taquitos up.
Bake the taquitos in a 350 degree oven for about 7-8 minutes until nice and toasted.
Now this was really interesting. The filling was HEAVENLY with the salty bacon and kimchi and the sharp cheese, and it tasted great, but the texture of the nori became soggy after sitting about for sometime.
Next time, I’ll stick to plain ol’ tortilla, though the nori concept was really creative. Or I’ll have to eat these immediately after taking them out of the oven to keep the crunchy and dry texture of the nori. I’ll rate these 8/10.
Challenge #2: Spicy Chicken and Guacamole
Tostada
Gochujang marinade:
- 1 tablespoon gochujang
- 1 tablespoon soy sauce
- 1 tsp vinegar
- squeeze of 1/2 lime juice
- 1 tsp honey
- 1-2 tablespoon water to taste
Whisk everything together until smooth. Set aside.
Guacamole (made by dear Mimi):
- 2 small avocados, mashed
- 1 tomato, diced
- 1/2 red onion, diced
- 1 Laughing Cow cheese wedge
- squeeze of lime juice
- cumin
- salt and pepper
Mix everything together. Mash and bash.
The rest of ingredients:
- 4 corn tortillas
- 1 cup grilled chicken
- 1-2 cups fresh baby spinach
- guacamole (see above)
- 1/2 cup crumbled goat cheese
- sprinkle of cayenne powder (optional)
Toss the gochujang marinade with the chicken and the spinach. Set aside for the flavors to meld.
Meanwhile, spray both sides of corn tortilla with oil and bake in a 350 degree oven for about 10-15 minutes, flipping them over half-way until golden and crispy.
Layer the chicken-spinach mixture onto each tostada. Plop a dollop of guacamole over each, sprinkle with goat cheese, and even some cayenne pepper if you’re a spice-loving mama.
Amaaaaaa~aaazing! Hark, is that angels I hear singing in my head while I bit into this? I heard no angels while I was eating Calbi BBQ’s tacos. Heaven is on our side, so I think the judgement is pretty obvious…Mimi and Sophia reigns supreme!!!!
LOVE all the flavors in there. It was funny how our conversation just suddenly stopped as we crunched and munched with silent swoons of delight.
I had a shot of cayenne pepper on top, but Mimi was not much of a spice-loving mama (YET) and left that out.
MOAR! MOAR! my head screamed, though my belly was getting satisfactorily full. Two thumb up, indeed! I give it 10.5/10!! Extra points because I get to share the glory with Mimi!
Yes, yes, I know Calbi BBQ probably don’t give a crap about two college students who claim to make better Korean-Mexican fusion than them, but today, the two of us walked with our heads swelled up with pride like balloons. In our own foodie world, we’re rockers!
Oh, and check this out:
BLOGGER in ACTION!
Okay, everyone, I’ve gotta run and continue catching up with my reading. With such good food inside of my tummy, and having had such a great time with great company, I am now ready to tackle some essays by John Baptist Lamark. Okay, not tackle—‘ enjoy. That’s the key word here!
P.S. Does anyone think 19th century writers are a bunch of pompous know-it-alls trying to squeeze in as many SAT vocabulary words as possible into one page?
Question of the day: What do you do when you think you’re on the verge of freaking out from overloaded stress?
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Sometimes you just need to take a break in order to put everything in perspective. I’m glad you’re feeling a bit better now
Hey hun, as you know I’m sort of in the same boat – studying again and getting used to the crunch! Your brain will take some time to adjust. I think your dad deffo hiot the nail on the head and really – in my mind it is quite pointless stressing about not being up to speed with EVERYTHING. In the future, at your job or maybe as a mom (if you want kids) you won’t be able to have everything down & structured all the time either – see this time as a learning curve on priorities and indeed taking a step back and making sure you take care of you.
I try to remind myself the world won’t end if I mess up an assignment or even *shock* fail a class. God/fate/life will always have a way of leading you somewhere even better, where you wouldn’t have gone had you been PERFECT (which is impossible anyway, haha).
what a great note and wisdom from your Dad
I’m glad you were able to take a break, regroup, and get some stuff done while enjoying it!
Your Dad has wise words.
m’going to go on the search for some nori. It’s the seaweed from sushi isn’t it? My favourite part of sushi was the seaweed lol
So cool there’s other bloggies at your college! You can always spot a bloggie in public
Who else constantly takes photos of their food? LOL
Your dad is a very smart man I am so glad you followed his advice!
I love that all your posts fit in: 1. a little bit of inspiration and 2. a lot of recipe that I want to try!
Your dad sounds smart and sweet!
Aaww your dad is so sweet..love your post dear..very inspiring!
What a lovely note from your father!
It’s always good to relax and do something different and then come back to the problem and then it’s easier to solve it. Love your creative dishes here, especially the tostadas sound amazing!
Wow! That tostada is certainly awesome!
U know wht? My friend is recently tryin to chg his life style and diet and hasd asked me to be his personal chef! Whoa! so cool!
I’m gonna feed him all the recipes that you have come up with! I;m sure he’ll love it!
1st up is tht freaking good mango cheese sauce!
StresseD?
I usually get a good workout, can be a jog (but must be in a park!), DANCE!! or jz hit the gym/yoga.
I normally feel much much better aft that, then i’ll reward myself with some good food! HAHAA!
When I’m stressed I go for a piece of chocolate and try to remember that all things pass and nothing lasts forever…..
Sadly, I don’t think I`ll be able to make it to FoodBuzz Blogger Festival this year. The deposit wasn’t as much as I had hoped, and I really don’t want to use my credit card to pay for the trip. I`m sure it`ll be a lot of fun, and hopefully I can make it next year!
Your dad is such a cool guy with great wisdom.
Your tostada is calling my name – it looks awesome.
on the 19th century writers comment: omg yes! they were paid by the word, after all. i mean, some of them are beautiful writers, but others…are painful.
your dad’s words are inspiring and incredible. thanks for sharing that.
your daddy is a wise man…i think i would like him. your smackdown is amazing – those tostadas are calling my name lady!
how is the domain thang going? let me know if you need help.
ENJOY school and don’t freak out too much – the time flies by way too fast
what a sweet note from your dad!
the food all looks so good!
I’m glad you’re less stressed! It’s so great you have a sweet relationship with your daddy!
And those tacos? AMAZING!
Was the blogger you or a friend?
Those are some very wise words from your father!
Last night I had a pretty major freakout session, and decided to wander around Fresh Market to calm myself down before I had a total meltdown. For some reason, walking around the little market with the smells of spices and herbs and looking at all of the gorgeous produce actually did calm me down a bit!
love your dads response!!! hes right of course!!! lol
the food.. goodness its to die for!!!
Hope you are a little less stressed! At least you have access to lots of yumminess…
I am a master procrastinator, and thus I stress out. I measure my life in how many days I need to survive. As in, “if I can just make it to X day, everything will be all right.”
Hope this week is better for you…
Same pinch!
I was also busy with the works and too tired.
The pics and recipes look nice.
When I’m on the verge of freakin out sometimes, if I can, I take a nap. Waking up refeshed makes me feel much better.
Great father! Great advice! Great food! And when stressed – I listen to myself breathe.
Yoga helps me – but I REALLY like your father’s advice. Simple. Clear. I’m going to remember to ask myself “Who are you?” when I’m stressed. It is so perfect for so many situations!
That is such great advise! When I am on the verge, I just have to step back and re-assess my situation. That doesn’t always work though!
Congrats on your essay! That really is great advice from your dad. When I’m feeling stressed out I either like to get some fresh air or cook! Both clear my mind
LOVE your throw down creations! Do you think you’ll make a regular thing of your fusion food throw-downs? I think that could be fun!
just wanted to say hello and hope school is going smoothly, I am so swamped with reading.
be well =)
Jen
When I’m stressed, nothing helps more than taking 5-10 minutes to do breathing exercises. Pranayama is one of the most useful things yoga has taught me!
hi-lo lovie! I totally feel you on being behind with work and feeling so overwhelmed with just WAY TOO MUCH stuff to do with school. It’s so funny how it all builds up in the matter of minutes. Exhausting, I tell you! Simply exhausting! Ick! haha
I think that turning to your dad was just the right thing to do. I, too, usually turn to the parental unit for those words of wisdom and a little love to help pick me up. Your dad sounds INCREDIBLE and oh so wise and it would be such a gift to hear him speak. I think he offered some very valid advice and Im so happy that he could shed some light on your situation.
Yayy daddio!
And you NEVER cease to shock me with your culinary talents! You are one hot spankin’ chef missy! I just want to come on over and eat what you’re a cookin’! hehe Yummmy in the tummy is all I would have to say!
Oh and don’t you worry, I’ll be around enough for you to still love me and vice versa!
Yum! Tostadas are the best!
Your dad sounds so much like my husband when I start to bang my head against my keyboard and complain about my blog. He says: “Do what you love doing and be true to yourself. If you are happy with what you are doing and how you are doing it, if it is a reflection of yourself and not what you think other’s want to see, then that is what is important.”
And those wraps are fabulous.
I always freak out in the beginning of the school semester because I look at all the work I have to do over the next few months and my head thinks I have to do it all right NOW. But then I calm down and tell myself that I have 3 months to get through it and I will get through it taking it one assignment at a time. I know it’s hard but you’ll get through it! I promise!
It actually makes me feel better to know that other students feel the same way I do about school work. Feel free to find comfort in my descriptions of daily head explosions on my blog.
Sometimes taking a break is the best and most productive thing you can do under stress. I like to think that my mind subconsciously ruminates on whatever I was worrying about so that when I come back to it, I am prepared and ready to take action! Which explains why your writer’s block went away after a day off. I am also a fan of the eating ice cream or baking method of de-stressing. Works every time.
So I know you think you want to be a journalist. I really do. But maybe you want to open up a restaurant. You are so inventive when it comes to food! I love your fusion dishes so much. Crazy good.
Burpandslurp, I have an award for you! It’s on my blog. I hope you like it.
Looks like both challenges turned out great. Your dad’s so cool. You both remind me of the family drama series called 7th Heaven..starring Jessica Biel when she was much younger.
I forgot to answer the question lol
What do you do when you think you’re on the verge of freaking out from overloaded stress?
Breathe through the nose, slowly & quietly 50 times, count as you go, it lowers the heart rate, & concentrate hard on a time you were really happy & not stressed..maybe a holiday or a fun time with your family, it works…
I’m glad you’re feeling less stressed and was able to get your paper done. Taking a break usually helps me too when I’m really stressed out.
Those tacos look delicious!
Great lesson about enjoying what you’re doing. I need to remember that at all times. Your tostadas look incredible!
Glad you are feeling better. I tend to eat when I feel stress…bad in a way.
Oh wow!! Both dishes look awesome, and I love the Korean-Mexican fusion concept. Bacon and kimchi together makes some sense in my mind. That sounds really good!!
When I’m stressed, I sometimes think about other times I’ve been stressed and then, using the previous examples, I remind myself that “this too shall pass.” That helps me. Sometimes I also walk through the worst possible outcome in my mind, and I often find that I’ve blown something out of proportion. It’s good to find new perspective. It sounds like your dad knows that well, and so do you. I’m glad you are feeling better and I’m glad you finished your paper. Woo hoo!!
I think it is wonderful your article came in frontpage.
Congragulation.
Poor Lamarck didn’t deserve quite the dressing-down that history has given him. I know that we are likely coming at the evolution issue from opposite sides, but I’d still be interested to read it if you felt comfortable with that, I can refrain from scientific commentary if you want.
I’m always just interested to see how people think, even if I know it’s not necessarily my view. Anywho, no worries either way, but feel free to email me if you have a question on Lamarck or anyone else in that arena.
And to relax when I am overwhelmed, I put on the iPod and walk my dog!
That’s such a neat idea with the nori! I just bought some, but I don’t really know what to do with it- any suggestions?
I have to say this is looking mighty delicious! You continue to deliver delicious recipes and food – thank you for sharing!
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