A Trip Out of the Blue

July 26, 2009

in eating disorders,eating out,God,My story

Whoo, what a roller-coaster ride this trip to Blacksburg, Virginia, was!

Sorry I’ve been MIA for the past days; I did have internet access but I decided to take a break from blogging for a while so that I can integrate myself fully into the social activities with my friends. Sure you understand :-)

First off, I need to make a confession: I didn’t mention it on my last post, but there was a bit of initial struggle for me to actually tag along on this trip. Most of you all know I have control issues, which only aggravated with my eating disorder, especially in regards to mealtimes and meal locations. Let me list several reasons why this sudden “wedlock” trip irked me:

  1. It was born out of nowhere just one day before the day of the trip…what the hell?
  2. It was planned without having been discussed with me.
  3. There were seven of us, and we were still ambiguous about our sleeping locations.
  4. We had no specific plan about what we were going to do!
  5. I knew there no good places to eat in Blacksburg, and considering that we are all poor students, knew we would more or less rely on fast food.
  6. My mealtimes and sleep-times would get messed up.

I used to enjoy spontaneity, but after several years of rigid scheduling and strict self-imposed rules, this sort of “up-for-the-moment” activity freaked me out.

I threw a small fuss for a bit, considering to just drop out and stay home, but after thinking it through, I realized it was another opportunity God was sending my way to challenge myself. In addition, I knew I would feel even worse if I were the only one who was left out!

So I went. This time though, I made no expectations for good food, but just good company. I would train myself to be satisfied with the great camaraderie between my friends alone, and try not to obsess about food and mealtimes.

Conclusion: It’s been one hell of a ride, but it’s sure as heck been a pretty enjoyable and memorable one!

We planned to set out early in the morning on Friday, but ended up starting the drive late as usual. By the time we reached Blacksburg it was past 1pm, and we stopped by the nearest place to eat:
DSC02239 I’ve never heard of this place until that day, but apparently it’s a popular sub-sandwich chain?

I ordered the Vegetarian on thick-sliced 7-grain whole wheat bread:
DSC02241 Layers of provolone cheese separated by real avocado spread, alfalfa sprouts, sliced cucumber, lettuce, tomato, and mayo.
DSC02242 Thick-sliced indeed! Two pieces of inch-thick dense carbyness! Truthfully, I wasn’t too impressed with this sandwich. It would have been 100% times better toasted or pressed.
DSC02243 After our late lunch we hopped over to my brother’s college, Virginia Tech, the land of the Hokies:
DSC02246 This is the place where the tragic V-tech shooting happened:
DSC02256 We also stopped by the memorial stones to show our respect for the fallen victims…
DSC02258 I can’t believe such a tragedy happened in such a peaceful southern country-side!
DSC02257 I wonder what the cows were doing then? I love how there are random fields of grazing cows everywhere:
DSC02245 Anyway, after the short tour (V-tech is huge!) we chilled at my friend Joyce’s apartment. The neat thing is, her roommate Alison decided to sleep over at her friend’s place so all seven of us could just about squeeze into the apartment!

For dinner we just got our own respective food from a nearby foodcourt:
DSC02269 Foot-long subway for me!

And Asian stir-fry for most of my friends…
DSC02267 They each got one single piece of corn in their stir-fries. How generous of the cook!
DSC022<br />
68 The following morning, I made breakfast for my friends:
DSC02272 French toast
DSC02273 Scrambled eggs

Then we had a small worship time together, and then set off to the Cascades for a little hike.

Now this is when disaster struck. Half-way on our drive to the mountains, our SUV made a little “pop” sound and smoke starting steaming out from the front! We had to stop in the middle of nowhere, hacking and coughing from the toxic gas.

But God sent an angel to help us! This African-American guy happened to drive past, but he stopped and offered to help. He even drove us around to three different mechanic repair shops, but all of them were closed for the weekend. Anyway, long story short (especially since I’m pretty darn clueless about cars): we figured out what was wrong with the car (something about overheating and the lack of liquid in the coolant), and we were back to driving to the mountains in two hours.
DSC02277 But the best thing out of this little “disaster” was the random friendship and bond we formed with a complete stranger. We were so grateful for him, we all encircled around and prayed for him. The guy was so touched he wept! And then he spent a half an hour or so sharing about his sad childhood (orphaned at 2 and sent to 36 different foster homes), and his own religious beliefs. We wrote down his contact number, and promised to hit him up if we ever come down again! :-)

Oh, and the hike was lovely. Rather tiring, but the end was so worth it:
DSC02286 Perfectly picture-worthy!
DSC02287 For dinner, majority won and we went to Texas Roadhouse, though I really did not feel like having a steak:
DSC02292 That’s when my obsession for food reared its ugly head again and I started feeling upset that I would not be able to eat what I want, but I just smiled and bear with it. You know what they say, “Fake it till you make it”? That’s what I did, and I ended up enjoying the company anyway, though not so much the food…:-(
DSC02294 At least the hot rolls they served out with whipped cinnamon butter was amazing!

Most of my friends ordered similar items. Prime-rib, NY strip, rib-eye, etc:
DSC02300 Or ribs:
DSC02298 I ordered the Pulled Pork Sandwich:
DSC02296 Tender pork covered in our signature BBQ Sauce. Side of broccoli and carrots.
DSC02302 It was just tolerable, nothing special. I also had it with some sweet potato:
DSC02299 And unlimited free peanuts (freaking big bucket)!!
DSC02293 Gosh, were we tired that day! But did we crawl into our beds like good kids? No…We stayed up the whole night playing random games…
DSC02271 Apples to Apples, anyone?

Suffice to say, I was pretty damn pooped the next morning. But we still had our own Sunday service together by listening to a pastor’s sermon online and then doing some sharing, singing some praise songs, and taking turns to pray. And then off back to Northern Virginia we go!

But we stopped by Red Robin to fuel up first:
DSC02305 Ordered the Towering Ring Onions to share:
DSC02306 Sweet yellow onions — seasoned, breaded & crisply-fried. Served with tangy Campfire sauce and ranch dressing for dipping.
DSC02307 Nice and crunchy, but why is it kinda bitter-tasting?

In interest of keeping this post short(er), I only took a picture of my own food. I ordered the Jamaican Jerk’d Chicken Burger:
DSC02309 Spicy Jamaican-jerk’d chicken breast, topped with Pepper-Jack cheese, grilled pineapple, cool mango mayonnaise, lettuce and tomato. Served on a jalapeño-cornmeal kaiser roll.
DSC02310 This was freaking good! The chicken was mediocre, but with the grilled juicy pineapple and that fruity and tangy mayonnaise, it was over the top! But my favorite part was that buttered jalapeño-cornmeal kaiser roll. Cornbread with hints of spice, but bun-style!
DSC02311 They come with unlimited steak fries!
DSC02308But seriously, is it just me, or does deep-fried food always taste sorta bitter? So, this is the second time I’ve had fries, but I’m still not impressed. Did my taste buds change? Is it possible to be turned off by something you used to adore?

Well, I’m finally back home now, and I need to do some unpacking and then some packing again for my trip up to NYC tomorrow. Gosh, it’s one event after another! I hope my body doesn’t crash…But I’m already pretty proud of how well it’s been holding up considering that several months before, I would fall into a stupor once night fell!

See you all in New York! :-)

P.S. By the way, my trip to New York has been shortened…I’ll be leaving Friday instead of Saturday :-(

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Faith July 27, 2009 at 10:49 am

It sounds like an amazing trip! The story of the stranger who helped you with your car was really touching.

I can’t wait to read about your fun in NYC! :)

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ksgoodeats July 27, 2009 at 10:58 am

To be honest, I would have felt a little nervous about that trip myself! I need to know details about everything.

We have a few Jimmy John’s around here but I’ve never been. That bread looks AMAZING! Have a blast in NYC!!

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Allen July 27, 2009 at 11:01 am

Hey Sophia! Its me allen! i just woke up and decided to check your blog out!

You know im still reallly tired.. I dont know how everybody else is up and about.. esp those who are working! my heart goes out to them..i hope that your doing well, and get plenty of rest !!

Oh yea and your pictures really are amazing… good angles

i felt bad a couple of times about where we were eating.. bc i think i could tell you werent happy and i felt really bad after we went to them. However after we ate you always were happy and kind again :P I had no idea it was a struggle that were going through.. now after reading your blog… i just wanted to say that Im proud of you sophia! And I am really glad that you were with us on the trip! I think it would not have been as enjoyable without anyone of the people on the trip.

God really held us in His hands… When we checked the van in the end… there really wasnt any major problem with it that happened to us YET. However i believe that God stopped us just before… #1 to show us there wasnt any coolant( bc that could have made our van catch on fire) and #2 to allow us to meet that man… Im glad to have gone through that experience with everybody in our young fellowship, one that God decided to show himself through people

I was thinking that alot of times during bible study i try to push our conversations to keep them God centered… or speak about who He is… but you seriously are a really good unspoken partner.. i dont know if this trip woudl have been as good spirtually with out you.. sunday morning i was SOOO TIRED with out there …i dont think we would have worshiped! you know?

well Gods blessed our small humble group alot this summer, He sure is there for us.. These are some special people and I hope that when we look back everybody is running hard for His kingdom and see that this is where we all started…
have a blessed school year sophia! We will all miss you since you wont be in the east coast with us!

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Allen July 27, 2009 at 11:04 am

*error in the 2nd to last paragraph …

SOO TIRED… with out YOU there.. i dont think we would have worshiped!

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Paige@ Running Around Normal July 27, 2009 at 11:09 am

Hey girl, I’m glad you stuck it out and had a good time. I understand why you’d be so frustrated though. :)

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keri410 July 27, 2009 at 11:13 am

Wow what a trip! Sounds like you had a lot of fun with a bunch of new/challenging experiences!

Glad you’re back tho! Just FYI, no meeting was had, thus no info to fill you in on… urg.

Have a good monday chica!
XX,
Keri

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Pam July 27, 2009 at 11:35 am

Good for you for facing tough challenges. What a busy girl you are!

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Cheryl July 27, 2009 at 11:41 am

I love reading about you adventures, you are doing great! My neighbor (who is a minister) laid hands on me and prayed for me one day and I started sobbing, I still cant figure out why?

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Reeni July 27, 2009 at 11:42 am

That’s so great that you went! What a fun time! Some disappointing eats but you just went with the flow. Your so good like that. Have fun in NY – can’t wait to hear all about it!

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Menden @ Skinny Menny July 27, 2009 at 11:44 am

Your pics make me miss my home state of VA!! I’m so glad that angel in disguise was kind enough to stop and help you guys…sounds like it was a blessing in disguise for him as well :)

Hope you enjoy your trip to NYC!

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Shubha July 27, 2009 at 12:00 pm

its amazes me as to how u control ur urge to splurge on food.i cant.and the tower onion rings pic had me drooling big time.

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Jessica@FoodMayhem July 27, 2009 at 12:03 pm

I love thick-cut bread and that tower of onion rings looked great too!

I’m so sorry, I can’t make it on Thurs. I just don’t think timing will work out. If you’re making a fro-yo or coffee creak in the city one day, let me know.

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Nowheymama July 27, 2009 at 12:20 pm

What an amazing story! As someone who likes to know the plan, I’m really proud of you.

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Leigh July 27, 2009 at 1:20 pm

Ahh you are so sweet! Yeah, I don’t know why but my comments to wordpress blogs don’t link back to my site. Weird. But it’s http://loveswimmingleigh.wordpress.com

Talk to you soon!

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Natalie July 27, 2009 at 1:25 pm

What a great trip! That onion ring tower looks INSANE :)

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nora@ffr July 27, 2009 at 1:26 pm

sandwich looking goooooodd!!!!

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bananasun July 27, 2009 at 1:59 pm

Sooo good that you went on the trip even though it challenged your meals times!!
Something I always ask myself when worries like that arise are, would I rather go with my friends, and eat something a little unplanned, or just sit at home alone and eat at perfect times.
Im sure we agree on what the best answer is :)

p.s that apple gorgonzola sandwich from your last post lookedd ahhhhh-mazing.
yummers.

xx

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Blond Duck July 27, 2009 at 2:31 pm

Good for you for dealing with bad vacay food! I had some myself at the beach!

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Laura July 27, 2009 at 2:38 pm

Aww that was a lovely story about the man who helped you. Its really nice when you come across someone like that who is just so willing to help you.

Your on a total roll with all this challenging yourself, its great! Id love to be able to be spontaneous like that, good for you. I`ll use you as inspiration for future events:-).
Really though I know I say this lots you should be so proud of how much you’ve done and how far you’ve come, its truely amazing.

That is one seriously thick sandwich, looks good tho :-)

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Alison July 27, 2009 at 2:43 pm

I know what you mean about being thrown off by spontaneity. but you handled it great!

I think Jimmy John’s is a midwestern chain. I’ve never seen them in the west but they’re all over Minnesota.

All your food looks great.

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Amanda4Sensei July 27, 2009 at 3:07 pm

It is just such a nice feeling when you meet such wonderful and caring strangers on journeys.

Glad to see you stayed strong and enjoyed your friends on your trip! Road trips with great friends are the best thing at this time in your life!!!

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Jackie @ PhamFatale.com July 27, 2009 at 3:30 pm

It made me smile when you mentioned the one corn kernel in the stir fries!

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Astra Libris July 27, 2009 at 3:35 pm

I am so impressed with your spontaneity positive attitude! How wonderful! You are truly an inspiration! I love the story of your meeting with the helpful stranger – such a beautiful encounter! I love how God leads us to unexpectedly uplifting moments in unique ways…

Oh my goodness, I am SO glad I’m not the only one who doesn’t like french fries! :-) They taste oily and bitter to me too! I love roasted potatoes, or baked “oven fries,” but not french fries. OOoh, and I usually order the same sandwich you did at Red Robin! The pineapple is delish! I was so psyched when I saw your photo! :-) I completely agree with you about the fries and onion rings, though… :-) My friends all tell me I’m silly when I say I don’t like fries… :-) I’m very glad to have your voice of support! :-)

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Claudia July 27, 2009 at 3:56 pm

Ah! I love the game Apples to Apples. Heheheheheheheh. Good stuff.

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peanutbutterandjenny July 27, 2009 at 3:59 pm

i think taking a blogging break was an absolutely amazing idea — it sounds like it helped you to focus on really enjoying your trip :) !

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janetha July 27, 2009 at 4:13 pm

check you out! miss travel pants. i am jealous of the impromptu trip. super amazing story about the dude who stopped to help you! apples and apples is my jam, i love that game. we have jimmy johns here but i have never eaten there. i have been to texas roadhouse once though and i thought the same thing you did: the only good part was those rolls! glad you had a fun time with friends and good for you for stepping outside of your comfort zone!

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Figtreeapps July 27, 2009 at 4:26 pm

I relate to sooo much of this post. You continue to crack me up. I admire how flexible you were, putting your friendship before your food needs..it aint easy!!! Your risk taking as you continue to step out of your comfort zone is a greater sign of wellness that eating an onion from that insane tower. !!!!Figtreeapps

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Lara (Thinspired) July 27, 2009 at 4:44 pm

Those onion rings just look HEAVENLY! I hope you dipped them in ranch :)

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Andrea@WellnessNotes July 27, 2009 at 4:58 pm

I’m glad you went on this spontaneous, unplanned trip! And even though the food may not have tasted great, your food picts are always amazing! :)

Have a great trip to NYC!

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lisaiscooking July 27, 2009 at 5:08 pm

That looks like an incredible hike. Gorgeous waterfall! Your French toast looks great too!

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EatingRD July 27, 2009 at 5:21 pm

Looks like a wonderful trip :) I can be like that too when things aren’t strategically planned lol Isn’t that just great when you meet a perfect stranger that is a nice person just by chance? I love when that happens. happy travels!
-kristen

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Claudia Haas July 27, 2009 at 5:32 pm

Your growing ability to make positives out of possible negatives is wonderful!

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ttfn300 July 27, 2009 at 6:02 pm

wow, that certainly be a challenge mentally, and i’m so glad you embraced it and can consider it conquered now! what a great trip, too :)

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Julia July 27, 2009 at 6:06 pm

What a fantastic trip! Great job regulating your own thoughts! Sounds like you rocked it!

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homecookedem July 27, 2009 at 6:43 pm

I’m so glad you made the right choice to go out and live life and not let your ED make decisions for you.

I’ve recently been invited to quite a few parties and showers and my first instinct has been to turn them down, even lie to get out of them. Will they have safe foods I can eat while trying to lose weight??! BUT, I talked myself out of that way of thinking and this morning RSVP’ed to all of them saying I would be happily attending. I am not going to miss out on any more of life because I am afraid of the food.

Looks like you had fun!

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teresa July 27, 2009 at 8:13 pm

i have a hard time being spontaneous too, but it sounds like you handled it really well. jimmy johns brought back good memories, we used to go there all the time in idaho! fun trip, what a great group of friends you have!

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Christina July 27, 2009 at 8:16 pm

Wow, what a fun trip! I love the hiking pics. It looks like such a beautiful area. Sorry about the car troubles but at least you got something good out of it!

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Michelle July 27, 2009 at 8:23 pm

Good job hanging in there throughout and thank you for posting about it!

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swimmingleigh July 27, 2009 at 9:40 pm

Ok… I think this worked.
Thanks for your help!

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psychoj1 July 27, 2009 at 9:45 pm

I think it’s totally possible that your taste buds have changed! I know mine have, but that’s not to say don’t try fries again. Maybe a few more times of different kinds of fries? I don’t know haha.
I AM SO FREAKING PROUD OF YOU. You are SUCH an inspiration!!
<3 jess
xoxo

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Katharina July 27, 2009 at 10:55 pm

That’s awesome that you went anyway. You’re right that those are true challenges. But it shows that you can do it! Working with what you’ve got without freaking out is seriously a huge step, I hope you know that. That’s like.. giving up the control that I think ED’s are usually about. I feel that sometimes a lot of people in recovery just stick to what’s comfortable for much longer than what they need too, and it’s really ED still latching on. But you kicked his butt this time :D I could go on and give you kudos forever hehe.

You’re such a sweet person, girl. I can definitely tell through your posts. And although I’m not religious or anything, I admire your faith and ability to genuinely exude the positivity you get from it. This whole post is just awesome! Even though you didn’t like the eats too much hehe :p

http://www.ohonemorething.wordpress.com

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Alexandra July 27, 2009 at 11:06 pm

sometimes it’s not always about the food..and the company can overshadow a horrible meal :) That was so wonderful of the man to stop and help you guys!

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healthy ashley July 28, 2009 at 8:52 am

Good for you fo jumping in on the trip! It looks awesome and well worth it!

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louise July 28, 2009 at 10:38 am

I’m thinking there’s an adventure series in the making here. Your trip has all the ingredients; courage, inspiration, adventure, chance meetings, spontaneity and lots and lots of delectable goodies. GREAT post!!!

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brandi July 31, 2009 at 2:07 pm

I am SO sad I was out of town! The cascades are literally 5-10 minutes from my house :) I’m glad you guys had a good time.

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Thoughts Appear July 9, 2010 at 5:00 am

Your I Burped Here page led me to this post because I had to see what you ate at Red Robin. I love the onion ring tower!

Awesome picture of the waterfall, too.

And last, but not least…I kick butt at Apples to Apples.

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